He mau manaʻo hūnā ʻia nā moeʻuhane, a he mea kōkua ke ʻimi hou aku iā lākou. Inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi moeʻuhane e pili ana i kou ex e komo ana i kou home, ua noʻonoʻo paha ʻoe i ke ʻano o ia mea. Ma kēia pou moʻomanaʻo, e kōkua mākou iā ʻoe e wehewehe i kēia moeʻuhane a hāʻawi i ka ʻike i nā memo e hiki ai ma hope.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu kāne mua i ke komo ʻana i ko mākou hale
I koʻu ala ʻana mai ka moeʻuhane hope loa o kaʻu kāne mua e hele ana i loko o ko mākou hale, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole a pau āna e lawe nei. I loko o ka moeʻuhane, ua hoʻāʻo ʻo ia e hoʻopōʻino iaʻu, a me he mea lā iaʻu e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻi hou i loko o koʻu ola ma ke ʻano he mea pōʻino. He mea hoihoi ke hoʻomaopopo ʻana ua hiki mai kēia moeʻuhane he mau pule wale nō ma hope o ko mākou hoʻopaʻapaʻa nui ʻana, a me he mea lā e hoʻāʻo nei koʻu ʻike e haʻi mai iaʻu aia nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole o kā mākou hoʻopaʻapaʻa. Eia naʻe, ma ka hakakā ʻana a me ka hakakā ʻana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole, ke manaʻo nei au hiki iaʻu ke hoʻopau loa iā lākou. Hiki i nā moeʻuhane ke lilo i mea hōʻailona nui, no laila pono mau ka lawe ʻana i ka manawa e wehe i ka mea a lākou e hoʻāʻo nei e haʻi iā ʻoe.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu kāne mua i ke komo ʻana i ko mākou hale
I kēia mau lā, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi moeʻuhane i komo ai kaʻu kāne mua i ko mākou hale. I loko o ka moeʻuhane e hoʻāʻo ana ʻo ia e hoʻouka iaʻu. ʻOiai he mea weliweli a hopohopo ka moeʻuhane, hiki iaʻu ke hoʻomaopopo i ka hōʻailona ma hope. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu ex ma ka moeʻuhane ma hope o nā makahiki o ka hemo ʻana hiki ke hōʻike i koʻu mau manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana iā ia. Ke hooikaika nei au e hoopau i ka inaina a me ka inaina ia'u, a ke manao nei au he hoailona keia moeuhane e holomua ana au.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu kāne i komo i ko mākou hale e Ibn Sirin
Wahi a ka poʻe unuhi moeʻuhane Karistiano, e like me kā Ibn Sirin i ʻōlelo ai, ʻo ka holoi ʻana i ka papahele o ka hale ʻo ia ka hopohopo hohonu a i ʻole ka make koke. Manaʻo kekahi ʻo ia ka hana o ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana e hoʻokipa i kahi malihini a hoʻomaʻemaʻe paha ma hope o kahi pāʻina. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona o ka ex-kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike pinepine ana ka mea moeʻuhane i ka huhū a i ʻole ka huhū i kāna kāne ex-kāne. ʻAʻole pono ka moeʻuhane e hōʻeha iā ʻoe, he hōʻailona wale nō ia o ke aloha a i ʻole ka loli.
He aha ka manaʻo o ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu kāne mua i ka hale o koʻu ʻohana?
ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kāu ex hiki ke hoʻopilikia, ʻaʻole e haʻi i ka huikau. Eia naʻe, he mea nui e hoʻomaopopo i ke ʻano o kēia moeʻuhane. I loko o kēia moeʻuhane, ʻike paha ʻoe i ka lili a me ka palekana. Hōʻike pū ʻoe i nā hōʻailona e mau ana kou manaʻo no kāu ex. He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ka moeʻuhane he ala wale nō ia e kamaʻilio pū ai kou noʻonoʻo subconscious me ʻoe. No laila, pono e mālama ʻia ka wehewehe ʻana o kēia moeʻuhane me ka makaʻala, ʻoiai he hōʻailona wale nō ia o kou ʻano i kēia manawa.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu kāne mua e ʻai ana i ko mākou hale
I kēia mau lā, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi moeʻuhane i komo ai kaʻu kāne mua i ko mākou hale. Ma ka moeʻuhane, e ʻai ana ʻo ia i loko o ko mākou lumi kuke a ua huhū loa wau iā ia. Ua manaʻo wau e lawe ana ʻo ia i ko mākou wahi a ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia e noho i loko o ko mākou hale.
He hōʻailona ka moeʻuhane i koʻu manaʻo no kaʻu kāne mua i kēlā manawa. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua haʻalele mākou i kekahi manawa i hala a ʻaʻole wau ʻike pinepine iā ia, ʻo ia. Eia nō naʻe, hoʻopilikia loa ka moeʻuhane a hoʻoulu i ka huhū kahiko a me ka huhū. Manaʻo wau e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kāu mau moeʻuhane me kahi mea lapaʻau a i ʻole kākāʻōlelo e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻomaopopo i ka hōʻailona ma hope o lākou a hana i nā pilikia i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia e pili ana i kāu ex.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i koʻu makuahine hemo i ka hale o koʻu ʻohana
E hiamoe ana au me ka maluhia i koʻu moeʻuhane ua hele mai koʻu makuahine i hemo i ko mākou hale. Noho mākou a pau i loko o ka lumi lumi a ʻōlelo ʻo ia ua hele mai koʻu ex i loko o ka hale. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i wehewehe i kahi manawa kikoʻī no ka wā i hana ʻia ai kēia, akā ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kēia manawa. Ua ʻike au i kēia mea ʻē no ka mea ʻaʻole wau i ʻike a lohe ʻole paha mai koʻu ex i nā mahina a ua male māua no hoʻokahi makahiki i kēia manawa. Ua hoʻopaʻapaʻa wau i ke ʻano o kēia a ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu inā e hauʻoli a makaʻu paha wau.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu kāne mua e moe ana i ko mākou hale
I kēia mau lā, ua loaʻa iaʻu kahi moeʻuhane i komo ai kaʻu kāne mua i ko mākou hale. Ma ka moeʻuhane e moe ana ʻo ia ma ko mākou wahi moe. He mea ʻē a manaʻo ʻole ia, a ua hōʻoluʻolu loa iaʻu. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu i ke ʻano o ia mea, akā manaʻo wau he hōʻailona ia e loaʻa mau ana kekahi mau pilikia i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia ma waena o mākou. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā pili ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kā mākou pilikia male hou a i ʻole he hōʻailona o kahi pilikia hohonu, akā manaʻo wau he mea pono e noʻonoʻo i ke ʻano o ia mea. Hiki i nā moeʻuhane ke mana nui, no laila, pono e mālama pono iā lākou.
Ua moeʻuhane au aia wau me kaʻu kāne kahiko i kahi hale hou
I kēia mau lā, moeʻuhane au ua komo kaʻu kāne mua i ko mākou hale. I loko o ka moeʻuhane, manaʻo wau e hoʻāʻo ana ʻo ia e lawe i kekahi mea iaʻu. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu he aha ia, akā ʻike wau he mea nui ia. I koʻu ala ʻana, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hopena o ka moeʻuhane. Hiki ke manaʻo i kekahi mau mea, akā ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu i kēia manawa. E kali au a ʻike i nā mea e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi hale mehameha
I loko o ka moeʻuhane, aia wau i loko o koʻu hale kahiko (e hōʻailona paha i koʻu manaʻo i kēia manawa). Hōʻike koke mai koʻu ex a hoʻāʻo e komo i loko. Me he mea lā e hoʻāʻo ana ʻo ia e hana ʻino. Akā naʻe, hiki iaʻu ke hakakā a pale iaʻu iho. He hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane ke manaʻo nei au i ka mālama ʻole ʻia a me ka nāwaliwali i kēia manawa, a ke hoʻāʻo nei kaʻu kāne mua e hoʻohana i kēlā.
Ua moeʻuhane au aia wau me kaʻu kāne kahiko i kahi hale hou
I kaʻu moeʻuhane hope loa, aia wau me kaʻu kāne mua i kahi hale hou. Ua hauʻoli mākou e neʻe, akā aia kekahi mau pilikia i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia ma waena o mākou. E hakaka mau ana makou a he mea hoohihia. Ua ala au me ka luhi a me ka huhū, a manaʻo wau he hōʻailona kēia moeʻuhane o koʻu pilina i kēia manawa. ʻAʻole wau i pau i koʻu ex, a ke hakakā mau nei au me ia, no laila ʻo kēia moeʻuhane e hoʻihoʻi mai nei i kekahi mau manaʻo kahiko nona.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka hale o kaʻu kāne mua
I kēia mau lā, ma ka moeʻuhane, hoʻomaʻemaʻe wau i ka hale o kaʻu wahine mua. I ka moeʻuhane, hoʻohana wau i kahi mea hoʻomaʻemaʻe hoʻomaʻemaʻe e wehe i ka lepo a me ka lepo i hōʻiliʻili ʻia i nā makahiki. Ua pulumi pū au i nā paia a me nā papa papahele.
ʻAʻole maopopo ke ʻano o kēia moe. Eia naʻe, ua hoʻomanaʻo mai iaʻu i ka manawa i pau ai ko mākou pilina a pono wau e haʻalele i ka hale. ʻO kahi ʻē aʻe, hiki iā ia ke hōʻailona i koʻu pono e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kaʻu hana ma hope o ka pau ʻana o kā mākou pilina a hana i kahi no nā manawa hou. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana i ka hale o kahi ex-girlfriend a ex-partner paha he hōʻailona pinepine ia o ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i kahi kūlana pilikia.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kaʻu wahine mua
I koʻu moeʻuhane hope, e kamaʻilio ana au me kaʻu wahine mua ma ke kelepona. Kūkākūkā mākou i kekahi mau pilikia, a haʻi mai ʻo ia iaʻu e hele mai ana i ko mākou hale. Ua hauʻoli loa wau no ia mea, ua makemake wau e kamaʻilio me ia e pili ana i kēia mau pilikia no kekahi manawa. Eia naʻe, i kāna ʻōlelo ʻana e hele mai ana, ua pau koke ka moeʻuhane.
Pili paha kēia moe i nā pilikia i hoʻoholo ʻole ʻia ma waena o mākou. He hōʻailona paha ia e pono iaʻu ke kamaʻilio me ia e pili ana i nā mea e hana nei. Eia nō naʻe, manaʻo wau he mea nui ka nānā ʻana a wehewehe i nā kikoʻī āpau o kāu mau moeʻuhane i mea e hoʻomaopopo maikaʻi ai i nā mea e hana nei i kou ola.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi leka mai kaʻu wahine mua
I kēia mau lā, ua moeʻuhane au i loaʻa iaʻu kahi leka mai kaʻu wahine mua. Ma ka leka i ʻōlelo ai ʻo ia ko mākou hale i kēia manawa a ʻaʻole ʻae hou iaʻu e noho ma laila. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane he mea kānalua a huikau, no ka mea, ʻaʻole au i hōʻike iā ia ʻaʻole wau makemake hou e noho i ka hale hoʻokahi me ia. ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu ke ʻano o ia mea, akā he mea pono iaʻu e noʻonoʻo ai.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka noho ʻana me kaʻu wahine mua
ʻO kekahi o nā moeʻuhane maʻamau e noho pū me kāu mea aloha. I koʻu moeʻuhane hope, ua komo kaʻu kāne mua i ko mākou hale. I ka wā mua, pilikia wau no ka mea, manaʻo wau e hele mai ana ʻo ia e lawe i kaʻu mau keiki. Eia naʻe, i ka holomua ʻana o ka moeʻuhane, ua ʻike au ua hele mai ʻo ia e kipa a noho pū māua e kamaʻilio ana. ʻO ia moeʻuhane he manawa ia o ke kuʻikahi a me ka maluhia ma waena o mākou. He mea hoʻomanaʻo ia ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia kaʻu kāne, ke noho nei ʻo ia i ʻāpana o koʻu ola a ke mālama nei au iā ia.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ka noho ʻana me ka wahine mua he hōʻailona ia o ka makemake o ka wahine mua e hoʻi hou a kala mai no kāna hana. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kahi makemake no kahi hoʻonā a i ʻole pani ʻia ʻaʻole i hiki. Malia paha e ho'āʻo ana ka moeʻuhane e haʻi i ka mea moeʻuhane ua hiki i ka manawa e kala ai a neʻe aku. Hōʻike paha kēia i kahi makemake no ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana a i ʻole ka pono e hoʻokuʻu i ka huhū e hoʻomau. Inā ʻaʻole makemake ka mea moeʻuhane e kala aku, he mea hoʻomanaʻo paha ka moeʻuhane ʻo ka ʻawaʻawa e alakaʻi wale i ka ʻeha.
