ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana A pūliki ʻo ia iaʻu
Nui ka poʻe i moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka poʻe a lākou e aloha ai e uē a pūliki iā lākou. Wahi a ka naʻauao kaulana o Ibn Sirin, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke unuhi ʻia ma nā ʻano he nui. Inā uē ka mea āu i aloha ai me ka waimaka ʻole a me ka mālie, ʻo kēia hiʻohiʻona paha he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻomaha ʻana o nā hopohopo a me ka hopena o ka pilikia āu e ʻeha nei. He hōʻike paha kēia e hiki mai ana kāu manawa pilikia a hiki mai kahi manawa ʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli.
Eia nō naʻe, inā e uwē ana ka mea āu i aloha ai i ka waimaka o ke kaumaha, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano o kou noho ʻana i kahi kaiapuni i hoʻopiʻi ʻia me nā manaʻo a me nā haunaele. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka nalo a i ʻole ka nalowale o kēia kanaka i ka wā e hiki mai ana. No laila, pono ʻoe e makaʻala a nānā pono i ka mālama ʻana i kou pilina me kēia kanaka āu i aloha ai.
Inā ʻike ʻoe i ke kanaka āu e aloha ai e ʻapo mai ana iā ʻoe a e uē ana, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka pilina ikaika a me ka pilina hohonu ma waena o ʻoe. Hōʻike paha kēia ʻike he mea nui ʻo ia iā ʻoe a manaʻo ʻoe he pono kēia kanaka i kou ola. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke nalo i kēia kanaka a makemake ʻoe i manawa me ia e hana i nā hoʻomanaʻo hou a hoʻololi i ka pilina ma waena o ʻoe.
Ma keʻano laulā, pili pinepine ka uē ʻana i nā moeʻuhane me nā manaʻo kaumaha a me ka kaʻawale. Eia naʻe, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana paha he waimaka hauʻoli kēia uē. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli a me ka ʻoluʻolu o loko ma muli o ke alo o kēia kanaka i kou ola a me ka ikaika o ka pilina ma waena o ʻoe.
Ma keʻano laulā,ʻo kaʻikeʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e pono aiʻoe e hoʻomaha a hoʻokuʻu i kou mau hopohopo. Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke manaʻo ma lalo o ke kaumaha o ka naʻau a me ka naʻau, a pono e hoʻomaha a mālama iā ʻoe iho. ʻO ka puliki ʻana i ke kanaka āu i aloha ai a me ka uē ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka pono o ka pilina hohonu ma waena o ʻoe a me ka mālama ʻana i kēia pilina ikaika.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana a puliki mai iaʻu
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana a puliki iā ʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke lawe i nā manaʻo he nui no ka wahine hoʻokahi. Wahi a Ibn Sirin, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e ʻike nei ʻo ia i ke kaumaha nui a me ke kaumaha a makemake ʻo ia e loaʻa ke kākoʻo a me ka hōʻoluʻolu o kou naʻau. He ʻōlelo aʻo paha kēia iā ʻoe e hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua iā ia i kēia wā pilikia.
Eia naʻe, ināʻike ka wahine iā ia iho ma ka moeʻuhane e uē ana me ka mea āna i aloha ai a pūliki iā ia, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka ikaika o ka pilina a me ka pilina ma waena o lāua. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kanaka āu e aloha ai e pūliki ana iā ʻoe i kou wā e uē ai, e hōʻike ana i ke aloha a me ka hōʻoluʻolu i kou alo.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka moeʻuhane ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana a puliki iā ʻoe e hōʻike paha i nā manaʻo kaumaha a me nā pilikia āu e ʻike nei i kou ola maoli. He makaʻala paha kēia moeʻuhane iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo a loaʻa i kahi ala e hoʻokuʻu ai i nā manaʻo i ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā.
I ka hopena, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moeʻuhane he nui a paʻakikī nā ʻano, a ʻokoʻa paha mai kekahi kanaka i kekahi ma muli o ko lākou kūlana a me nā wehewehe. No laila, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kēia mau wehewehe ʻana ma ke ʻano he kuhikuhi maʻamau a nīnau i nā unuhi wehewehe moe e loaʻa i ke alakaʻi pololei e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana a puliki iā ʻoe ma ka moeʻuhane.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane e like me ka ʻōlelo a Ibn Sirin
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia kekahi o nā hihiʻo e ho'āla i ka manaʻo a me ka noʻonoʻoʻana i kona manaʻo no ka wahine hoʻokahi. Wahi a Ibn Sirin ka wehewehe ʻana, ʻo ka uē ʻana o ka mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo o ka wahine hoʻokahi i ka hopohopo, ke kaumaha, a me ka pilikia nui. Eia naʻe, hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia kēia mau manaʻo no ka manawa pōkole a hiki i ka wahine hoʻokahi ke lanakila koke i kēia pilikia.
I ka hihia o ka wahine male i haʻi i ka uē ʻana o kāna kāne ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i ka wehewehe ʻana o Ibn Sirin ke pili i ka makaʻu a me ka hopohopo. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāna kāne e uē ana, e hopohopo a hopohopo paha ka wahine o loaʻa kekahi mea ʻino i kāna kāne. Eia naʻe, pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia ka weheweheʻana i kaʻikeʻana i nā moeʻuhane he mea ia e pili ana i ka wehewehe pilikino a me ka moʻomeheu o kēlā me kēia kanaka, no laila e like paha kēia mau weheweheʻana mai kekahi kanaka i kekahi.
Ma keʻano laulā, hiki i ka uē ʻana i loko o nā moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ke kaumaha a me ke kaumaha i manaʻo ʻia e ke kanaka ma ke ola maoli, me ka manaʻo o ka kaʻawale ʻana mai nā mea aloha, ka nalowale ma ka hana, a i ʻole ka ʻeha ʻana o kāna mau manaʻolana. No laila, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uwē ana a uwē ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana e kū ana kēia kanaka i nā pilikia nui a me nā pōʻino.
Ma ka hihia o ka wahine hoʻokahi, manaʻo ʻo Ibn Sirin e hiki ke wehewehe ʻia ka uē ʻana o kāna mea aloha i kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana ʻaʻole i pau ka pilina ma waena o lākou ma o ka male ʻana a hiki i ka palena o ka kaʻawale. He hōʻike paha kēia ʻike i ke aloha nui o ka wahine hoʻokahi i ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna, mahalo iā ia, mālama iā ia, a hopohopo i ka pōʻino nona.
Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia ka wehewehe ʻana i ka hihiʻo moeʻuhane ma ke ʻano he kānāwai paʻa a ʻaʻole pono e hilinaʻi ʻia ma ke ala hoʻokahi i ka wā e hoʻoholo ai i ke ola. Hiki i nā moeʻuhane ke lawe i nā leka a me nā manaʻo like ʻole no kēlā me kēia kanaka a hilinaʻi i nā kūlana a me nā manaʻo.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana iā ʻoe
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana, ua manaʻo ʻia kekahi o nā moeʻuhane e lawe ana i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo he nui. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, pili ia Ka uē ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane Ma ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā hopohopo a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka pilikia me ke kaumaha. Inā ʻike ʻoe i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane, aia paha ʻoe e noho ana i kahi ʻano hoʻopiʻi naʻau a hiki i kēia moe ke hōʻike i kou nalowale ʻana i kēlā kanaka.
Inā uē ke kanaka i ka waimaka, hōʻike paha kēia ua mihi ʻo ia i kekahi o nā hana kapu āna i hana ai a makemake ʻo ia e mihi maoli i ke Akua. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā ʻike kekahi kaikamahine hoʻokahi i kahi mea āna i aloha ai e uē ana, e hōʻike ana kēia i nā loaʻa a me nā pōmaikaʻi e loaʻa iā ia i kona ola. Eia naʻe, inā ʻike ke kanaka i kahi kanaka āna i ʻike ai e uē ana, he hōʻike paha ia he mau mea huna āna e hoʻāʻo nei e hūnā iā ia.
Pono mākou e ʻōlelo he nui paha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane a hilinaʻi i ka pōʻaiapili o ka moeʻuhane a me kāna mau kikoʻī pilikino. No laila, ʻo kēia mau wehewehe ʻana he mau alakaʻi maʻamau wale nō a loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi wehewehe ʻokoʻa ma muli o kou wahi pilikino a me kou kūlana ola. I ka hopena, pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ke Akua wale nō ka mea i ʻike i ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moeʻuhane.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uē ana i ka moeʻuhane no nā wahine hoʻokahi
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e uwē ana i ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi a me kona makemake nui i kēia kanaka. No ka wahine hoʻokahi e ʻike i kahi mea āna i aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka pilina ʻuhane a me ka pilina paʻa i loaʻa iā ia me kēia kanaka. Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka hopohopo o ka wahine hoʻokahi i ka palekana o kēia kanaka a me kona manaʻo ikaika e kōkua a kākoʻo iā ia i nā manawa pilikia.
Ināʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi ma ka moeʻuhane i kahi kanaka iʻikeʻia e ia e uē ana, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i ka maikaʻi o kona kūlana a ke hoʻokokoke neiʻo ia i kaʻono o ka hoʻopauʻana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia e hiki mai ana i kona ola. Ua manaʻo ʻia kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi no ka wahine hoʻokahi, ʻoiai e hōʻike ana i kahi wā e hiki mai ana e kali ana iā ia a me kona hiki ke lanakila i nā pilikia.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka mea aloha e uwē ana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona hopohopo a me kona pilikia a makemake nui ʻo ia i ke kākoʻo noʻonoʻo. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai e uē me ka leo ʻole i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i kona makemake e noho a mare, a ʻo kēia hihiʻo paha e hōʻike ana i ka lā kokoke e male ai kēia kanaka.
Inā ʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i kona makuakāne e uē ana, e hōʻike ana kēia i kona hopohopo a me ke kaumaha i kēia wā, a pono paha ʻo ia e kākoʻo a mālama. Manaʻo ʻia nā wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻo a hoʻoikaika i nā pilina ʻohana e hoʻopau i ko lākou hopohopo.
ʻO ka weheweheʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane e pili pū ana me nā manaʻo a me nā hopohopo i loaʻa i ka wahine hoʻokahi i loko o kona ola. Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i kona hopohopo, luhi, a me ka makemake e loaʻa ka manaʻo paʻa a me ka hauʻoli i kona ola. He mea nui i ka wahine hoʻokahi ke hoʻāʻo e hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo a kaʻana like i kēia mau manaʻo me kāna mau hoaaloha pili a i ʻole nā ʻohana o ka ʻohana e loaʻa ai ke kākoʻo kūpono.
Ma keʻano laulā,ʻo ka weheweheʻana o kaʻikeʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi e pili ana i nā manaʻo hohonu, nā paʻa ikaika, ka hopohopo, a me ke aloha āu i loaʻa ai i kēia kanaka. He mea hoʻomanaʻo paha kēia moeʻuhane i ka wahine hoʻokahi i ke koʻikoʻi o ke kākoʻo ʻana a me ka mālama ʻana i kāna mau mea aloha a me ka hōʻike ʻana i kona mau manaʻo me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻoikaika i nā paʻa o kona ola.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kekahi e uē ana ma koʻu ʻūhā
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kekahi e uē ana ma koʻu mau lima, ʻo ia kekahi o nā moeʻuhane me nā manaʻo maikaʻi e hōʻike ana i ke ola ʻana o ka pilina ikaika a me ke aloha hohonu ma waena o ka mea moeʻuhane a me kēia kanaka e uē ana. ʻO ke kanaka e pūliki ana a me ka uē e hōʻike ana i kahi pilina manaʻo ikaika ma waena o lākou a me ka pili hohonu i kēlā kanaka i ke ola maoli. Hiki ke noʻonoʻo ʻia kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka makemake e hele a pili i kēia kanaka a hōʻike iā ia i ke kākoʻo a mālama i nā manawa paʻakikī.
Ma waena o nā mea wehewehe moe, manaʻo kekahi he mea maikaʻi ke kanaka e uē ana i ka moeʻuhane, no ka mea e hōʻike ana i ka hiki ke hoʻololi maikaʻi i ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane. Ma kekahi poʻomanaʻo ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka moeʻuhane ʻana i ka pūliki ʻana i ke kanaka uē ma hope e hiki ke unuhi ʻia he hōʻike e loaʻa ana ka mea moeʻuhane i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia o kona ola.
E pili ana i ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine e puliki ana i kāna kāne i ka wā e uē ana, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hiki ʻana mai o ka maikaʻi nui i kona ola e lawe mai i ka hauʻoli a me ka ʻoluʻolu. Ua pilikia paha ke kāne i nā kūlana paʻakikī a mihi paha i nā mea i loko o kona ola, akā i ka hopena e ʻimi nei ʻo ia i ke kākoʻo a me ka hōʻoluʻolu ma hope o kāna wahine i ka lanakila ʻana i kēia mau pilikia.
No ka wahine hoʻokahi i ʻike i kekahi e ʻapo ana iā ia a e uwē ana ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia e hele ʻo ia i kekahi mau pilikia i ke ola, akā hiki iā ia ke lanakila wikiwiki a loaʻa ka kūleʻa. He mea nui e hoʻomau i ka manaʻolana a hoʻokokoke i nā pilikia me ka manaʻo maikaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi i ko lākou hiki ke lanakila ma luna o lākou.
Ma keʻano holoʻokoʻa, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi e ʻapo ana iā ʻoe a me ka uē ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke unuhi ʻia he hōʻike o ke aloha a me ke aloha mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe i ka mea moeʻuhane. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā manaʻo o ke aloha a me ka maluhia i loaʻa i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no ka mea moeʻuhane, e makemake ana e hōʻike iā ia i ke kākoʻo a me ka hōʻoluʻolu i nā manawa paʻakikī.
ʻO ka hope, pono e wehewehe ʻia nā moeʻuhane ma muli o ke ʻano o ke ola a me ke kūlana pilikino o ke kanaka. Hiki ke nīnau ʻia kahi unuhi ʻōlelo moeʻuhane no ka ʻike hohonu ʻana i nā manaʻo o kēia moeʻuhane.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka uē ʻana o kekahi
Hoʻohana kekahi poʻe i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane a me nā hihiʻo i mea e hoʻomaopopo ai i ko lākou manaʻo a aʻo i kā lākou mau ʻōlelo huna. Ma waena o nā moeʻuhane a ke kanaka e ʻike ai he moeʻuhane o ke kanaka e uē ana. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe e uwē ana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻailona paha i ka hopohopo a me ka ʻehaʻeha i manaʻo ʻia e ka mea moeʻuhane i kona ola i kēlā me kēia lā.
Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke lilo i hōʻailona i ke kanaka aia ʻo ia i kahi kūlana paʻakikī a maikaʻi ʻole paha e pono ai ke komo ʻana a me ka hoʻoholo maikaʻi ʻana. Hiki ke hōʻike i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā pilikia noʻonoʻo a pilikanaka paha e kū nei ke kanaka i kona ola, ʻo ia paha ke kumu e uē ai ke kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane.
Pono e hoʻomanaʻo ka mea i ʻike i ka moeʻuhane ʻaʻole he ʻepekema pololei ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, a he nui paha nā kumu e pili ana i ke ʻano o kēia moeʻuhane a me kona ʻano. ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e hilinaʻi paha i ke ʻano o ke kanaka, nā ʻike, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo pilikino, no laila ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e nīnau i kahi loea i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e loaʻa ai ka wehewehe pololei a hilinaʻi.
Eia naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i nā manaʻo ikaika a maikaʻi hoʻi i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka uē ʻana o kekahi. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane paha he hōʻike ia o kahi pae o ka loli a me ka ulu ʻana i ke ola o ke kanaka, ʻoiai ʻo ia e hele ana i nā pilikia paʻakikī a lanakila maikaʻi. He mea paipai kēia moeʻuhane i ke kanaka e hoʻomau i ka hoʻomanawanui a kū i nā pilikia.
Ma keʻano laulā, pono e hana ke kanaka i ka moeʻuhane o kahi kanaka uē me ke aloha a me ke aloha, no ka mea, he hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane i nā manaʻo o ka mea moeʻuhane a pono paha iā ia ke kākoʻo a me ka nānā. Hiki i ke kanaka ke ʻimi i kekahi ala e kōkua ai iā ia e hoʻomaha i ka ʻeha a me ke koʻikoʻi noʻonoʻo i loko o kona ola, e like me ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa hoʻomaha a i ʻole ke ʻimi ʻana i ke kākoʻo mai nā hoaaloha a me ka ʻohana.
I ka pōkole, hiki i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi kanaka e uē ana he paʻakikī a he nui. Hiki i ka wehewehe ʻana mai ka ʻōlelo aʻo ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia a hiki i ka paipai ʻana i ka kūpaʻa a me ka hoʻomanawanui. No laila, ʻo ka nīnau ʻana i kahi loea wehewehe moe ʻo ia ke ala hilinaʻi e hoʻomaopopo pololei i kēia moe a me kona ʻano
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu hoaaloha e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu mea aloha e uē ana i loko o ka moeʻuhane i manaʻo ʻia he moeʻuhane ʻeha a hoihoi. Ke ʻike aku ke kanaka i kāna mea aloha e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka ikaika o ka pilina manaʻo ma waena o lākou. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāu uē aloha e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli a me ka hoʻomaopopo hohonu ma waena o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
Inā hāʻule nā waimaka me ke kaumaha mālie a me ke kani ʻole, hōʻike paha kēia i ka hoʻomaha o nā hopohopo a me ka hopena o ka pilikia i ke ola. Eia naʻe, inā pili ka uē a ka mea aloha me ka uē ikaika a me ka waimaka, he hōʻailona paha kēia o nā kuʻikahi ma waena o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
Ināʻike ka wahine hoʻokahi i ka mea aloha e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana kēia e hoʻopauʻo ia i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i loko o kona ola, a e heleʻo ia i kahi manawa o nā hopohopo a me nāʻike e pau koke ana.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mea aloha e uē ana i loko o ka moeʻuhane ʻaʻole i kaupalena ʻia i nā pilina pili wale nō, akā hiki ke lawe i nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki i kahi hoaaloha uē ke hōʻailona o ka hoʻokōʻana i kahi makemake paʻakikī i kou ola. ʻO ka uē ʻana he hōʻailona ia o ke aloha a me ke aloha o ka mea i ʻike iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane.
Ke ʻike ka wahine hāpai i kāna mea aloha i ka uē ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha ia i kona pono e mālama, palekana, a hōʻoluʻolu i ka wā hāpai. Hiki i kēia wehewehe ke hōʻike i ka makemake o ka wahine hāpai i ka mālama a me ka mālama hou.
I ka hopena, pono mākou e haʻi aku he ʻokoʻa paha ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moeʻuhane mai kekahi kanaka a i kekahi a ma muli o ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane a me ka ʻike o ka mea moeʻuhane. No laila, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ka unuhi ʻōlelo moe e loaʻa i ka wehewehe piha a pololei o ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mea aloha e uē ana ma ka moeʻuhane.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu hoa kāne mua e uē ana no nā wahine hoʻokahi
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka uē aloha o ka wahine hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo kūʻē a lawe paha i kahi leka koʻikoʻi. Hiki ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo o ka wahine hoʻokahi i ka makemake a me ka nostalgia no kāna mea aloha mua, a makemake e hoʻomau ka pilina. He hōʻike paha kēia o kona makemake nui i nā pilina aloha a me kona makemake e ʻike hou i ke aloha a loaʻa ka hauʻoli pilikino.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka uē ʻana o ka mea aloha ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke ʻano o ka mihi i loko o ka wahine hoʻokahi. e hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia e kū nei ma ka pilina. He mea hoʻomanaʻo paha kēia iā ia he mea nui e makaʻala a makaʻala i ka hoʻoholo ʻana i kona manaʻo.
Ma waho o ka wehewehe pololei o kēia moe, pono e hoʻohana ka wahine hoʻokahi i manawa kūpono e noʻonoʻo ai i kona mau manaʻo a me kona mau makemake. Aʻo ʻia ʻo ia e kamaʻilio pololei iā ia iho a nānā i nā manaʻo e hoʻomau nei i kona ʻeha a me ke kaumaha. Hiki paha iā ia ke pōmaikaʻi mai kēia moeʻuhane e neʻe aku i ka pilina ma mua a nānā i ka hoʻomohala ʻana iā ia iho a me ke kūkulu ʻana i nā pilina hou e lawe mai ai i ka hauʻoli a me ke kūpaʻa.
I ka hopena, pono nā wāhine hoʻokahi e hoʻomanaʻo he mau hōʻailona kānalua nā moeʻuhane aʻaʻole e hōʻike mau i nā hanana maoli i ko mākou ola. No laila, he mea nui ka hoʻohana ʻana i kēia hiʻohiʻona poignant i manawa kūpono no ka noʻonoʻo ʻana a me ka ulu pilikino, a no ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i ke ola me kāna mau ʻano maikaʻi a maikaʻi ʻole.
He aha ka manaʻo o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi āu i aloha nui ai?
ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi āu i aloha nui ai he hōʻailona ia o kou manaʻo ikaika i kēlā kanaka. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane paha he hōʻike ia o ke aloha hohonu a me ka makemake nui i kēia kanaka a me ka makemake nui e hoʻokokoke iā ia a i ʻole e hoʻomau i kahi pilina me ia. Ma muli paha o ka noʻonoʻo mau ʻana i kēia kanaka a me ka makemake mau e ʻike a noʻonoʻo iā ia. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka makemake e hoʻoikaika i ka pilina a i ʻole e hōʻike i ke aloha a me ke aloha i kēia kanaka. He hōʻike paha ia he pilina maikaʻi ma waena o ʻoe a me ka mea āu i aloha ai, a ʻo ka noʻonoʻo nui ʻana iā ia ka hopena o kēia pilina ikaika. Ma keʻano laulā, ʻo ka moeʻuhane i kahi mea āu i aloha nui ai he hōʻailona ia o nā manaʻo hohonu hohonu a me ke aloha ikaika āu e lawe ai i loko o kou puʻuwai.
He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane?
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi moeʻuhane e kamaʻilio ana me kahi mea āna i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia kekahi o nā hihiʻo e lawe ana i nā manaʻo like ʻole a me nā wehewehe he nui. ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kēia kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka pilina ikaika a me nā manaʻo nui i loaʻa i ka mea moeʻuhane me kāna mea aloha. Hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i ka makemake a me ka manaʻo paʻa e holomua i ka pilina, a me ka mahalo a me ka kūpaʻa.
Ma kekahiʻaoʻao,ʻo kaʻikeʻana i ke kamaʻilioʻana me kēia kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke hōʻike i ka hopohopo o ka mea moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka pilina, a me kona makemake eʻike i nā mea kiko'ī a me nā nūhou e pili ana i kēia kanaka. ʻO ke ʻano paha kēia e hele ana ka mea āna i aloha ai i kahi pilikia a i ʻole pilikia, a pono ʻo ia i ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua o ka mea moeʻuhane i ka lanakila ʻana i kēia mau pilikia.
Inā poina ka mea moeʻuhane i ke ʻano o ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma hope o kona ala ʻana, he hōʻailona paha ia e pili ana ka mea āna i aloha ai i kahi pilikia paʻakikī a paʻakikī paha. Na ka mea moeʻuhane paha e hāʻawi i ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo i kēia kanaka i kēia wā pilikia.
Pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia heʻano likeʻole ka weheweheʻana o kaʻikeʻana i ke kamaʻilioʻana me kekahi mea āna i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane ma muli o ka pōʻaiapili o ka moeʻuhane a me nāʻike pilikino o ka mea moeʻuhane. Makemake paha ka mea moeʻuhane e nīnau i kekahi kanaka akamai i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka wehewehe pololei a me ke alakaʻi pololei e pili ana i kēia moeʻuhane e hōʻike ai iā ia.
He aha ka manaʻo o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kāu mea aloha i make?
ʻO ka moeʻuhane i kahi mea make āu e aloha ai, he nui nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka mea moeʻuhane. Wahi a ka poʻe akamai i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea make āu i aloha ai ma kāu moeʻuhane hiki ke hōʻailona i kou aloha ikaika i kēlā kanaka. Hōʻike kēia moeʻuhane i ka manaʻo o ka nalo, ka makemake i kona noho ʻana, a me ka makemake e kamaʻilio pū me ia.
He manaʻo kūikawā paha ka moeʻuhane iā ʻoe. Inā he mau kuʻikahi a hoʻopaʻapaʻa paha ma waena o ʻoukou ma ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, a laila, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea i make i loko o kāu moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana paha e pau koke kēia mau kuʻikahi a hoʻi ka pilina ma waena o ʻolua i kahi kūlana maikaʻi. He hōʻailona paha kēia no ke kala ʻana a me ke kuʻikahi.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka moeʻuhane i kahi mea āu e aloha ai e make ana i manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona maikaʻi i nā manaʻoʻiʻo kaulana. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻailona i ka hiki ʻana mai o nā nūhou maikaʻi a me nā hanana hauʻoli. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike he nui nā holomua a me nā pōmaikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Ma waho aʻe o kēia, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea aloha iā ʻoe e make ana i ko lākou kūlana i kēia manawa me ka ʻole maoli o kēia make hiki ke hōʻailona i ka maikaʻi a me nā kūleʻa e hiki mai ana.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻopoina i ke koʻikoʻi o nā moeʻuhane no nā wahine hāpai. Inā ʻike ka wahine hāpai ma kāna moeʻuhane i kahi mea make e hāʻawi makana iā ia, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka lā e hiki mai ana o ka hānau ʻana a me ka hiki ʻana mai o ka pēpē hou, e loaʻa iā ia ka pōmaikaʻi nui a me ke ola.
ʻO ka hope loa, pono e mālama ʻia ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane me ka mālama a me ka noʻonoʻo noʻonoʻo. ʻOkoʻa nā moeʻuhane mai kekahi kanaka a i kekahi a he ʻokoʻa paha nā manaʻo a me nā hopena. No laila, ʻōlelo ʻia e noʻonoʻo i ke kūlana pilikino a me nā kūlana a puni o ka mea moeʻuhane i ka wā e loaʻa ai nā manaʻo a me nā wehewehe ʻana o kēia mau moeʻuhane.
He aha ke ʻano o ka ʻapo ʻana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane?
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻapo ʻana o kahi mea āu i aloha ai ma ka moeʻuhane he moeʻuhane ia e lawe ana i nā manaʻo koʻikoʻi a ʻokoʻa. He ʻīpuka paha kēia ʻike i ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i ka pilina e hoʻohui iā ʻoe me ke kanaka āu e ʻapo nei i ka moeʻuhane, a ʻo kona wehewehe ʻana ma muli o ka pōʻaiapili a me nā kikoʻī o ka moeʻuhane.
Inā ʻoe e pūliki ana i kahi mea āu i aloha ai me ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli i loko o ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha kēia o ka ikaika o ka pilina ma waena o ʻoe a me ke ʻano o ka pono like ma waena o ʻoukou. Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ke aloha a me ka mahalo āu i manaʻo ai i kēia kanaka a me kou makemake e pili kokoke iā ia a hui pū i kona hauʻoli.
Inā mamao loa ka mea āu e puliki nei i loko o ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha ia e haʻalele ana ʻoe iā ia a makemake ʻoe e ʻike iā ia. Hōʻike paha kēia ʻike i ka pono wikiwiki e kamaʻilio me ia a noho ma kona ʻaoʻao.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā ua make ka mea āu e puliki nei i ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hemahema a me ka nele. Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i kou makemake e hoʻokokoke aku i ke Akua a mihi i nā hewa.
No ka mea āu i ʻapo a ʻike ai i ke ola maoli, ʻo kēia hiʻohiʻona e hōʻailona paha i kou hoihoi iā ia a me kou noʻonoʻo mau i kona ʻano a me kona mau manaʻo. Hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i kou makemake e noho ma kona ʻaoʻao a kōkua iā ia inā pilikia.
I ka hopena, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka puliki ʻana i kahi mea āu e aloha ai he hōʻailona ia o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me ke aloha āu e manaʻo ai iā lākou. Pono e lawe ʻia ka ʻike i loko o kona pōʻaiapili a me nā kikoʻī e hoʻomaopopo i kona manaʻo maoli i ke ola maoli.
He aha ke ʻano o ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi kanaka āu i ʻike ai ma ka moeʻuhane?
He aha ke ʻano o ka pūliki ʻana i kekahi kanaka āu i ʻike ai ma ka moeʻuhane?
ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka pūlikiʻana i kekahi mea āu iʻike ai ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia e lawe ana i nā manaʻo likeʻole e pili ana i ka pōʻaiapili o ka moeʻuhane a me ka weheweheʻana o nā poʻe loea i ke kula. Hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ke komo ʻana i kahi pilina pili me ke kanaka puliki, a me ka hoʻonui ʻana i ke kahua o ka launa pū ʻana a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā pono ma waena o ʻoukou. He hōʻailona nō hoʻi ia o ka ʻiʻini nui āu i manaʻo ai no kēia kanaka. I kekahi manawa, ua unuhi ʻia ka moeʻuhane ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona he kōkua a kōkua paha e loaʻa iā ʻoe mai ka mea e puliki ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hiki iā ia ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi manawa hana a i ʻole ke kuleana i ka hoʻolako ʻana i ka male. Eia kekahi, hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka makemake e mare a hoʻomaka i kahi ola male hou. Ma keʻano o nā kaikamāhine hoʻokahi,ʻo kaʻikeʻana i ka apoʻana o kekahi mea a lākou iʻike ai e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻomauʻana o ka pilina a me ka hoʻomauʻana o kā lākou hoaaloha i ka wā lōʻihi. ʻO ka hope loa, pono e hoʻomanaʻo ʻia ʻo ka wehewehe maoli ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke ʻano pilikino o ka mea moeʻuhane a me nā kūlana o kēia manawa.
He aha ke ʻano o ka ʻapo ʻana a me ka honi ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane?
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻapo ʻana a me ka honi ʻana i loko o ka moeʻuhane kekahi o nā moeʻuhane e hāpai ai i ka hauʻoli a me nā nīnau i loko o ka puʻuwai o kahi wahine hoʻokahi. Ke manaʻo ʻoe mehameha a lōʻihi paha e kaʻana like i kou ola me kekahi ʻē aʻe, ʻike paha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e moeʻuhane ana i ka pūliki a me ka honi.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻapo ʻana he ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kānaka, ma muli o ka moʻomeheu a me nā ʻike pilikino. No kāna ʻaoʻao, ʻōlelo ʻo Ibn Sirin ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka apo ʻia ʻo ia ka hoʻomaikaʻi a me ka mahalo no ka mea ʻeha a me kāna pilina me ia. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine male e apo a honi, he hōʻailona paha ia i ke aloha a me ka makemake moe.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke apo ʻana i kahi kanaka ʻike ʻole, he hōʻailona paha ia i kahi hoʻomaha maikaʻi mai nā pilikia a me ka wehe ʻana o nā puka o ke ola. ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi apo paʻa i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke aloha nui a me ka pili ʻana i ka honua a me kāna mau pōmaikaʻi.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka puliki ʻana ma waena o ka mea aloha a me kāna mea aloha ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana e loaʻa i ka mea moeʻuhane nā mea maikaʻi a me ke kūpaʻa he nui i ka wā e hiki mai ana, a e hōʻike ana hoʻi e kū pū kāna mea aloha iā ia i nā wā pilikia.
Ua hoʻohui ʻo ia: ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi pūliki ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka pono o ke kanaka i ke kālā a me ke kōkua.
He mea pono ke ʻōlelo ʻia ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻapo ʻana a me ka honi ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike pinepine i ka lokomaikaʻi, a me ka makemake o ke kanaka e kamaʻilio a me ka pilina ma waena o nā kānaka ʻelua. Hōʻike ia i ke aloha, ke aloha, a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ke aloha ma waena o lāua.
Hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke hoʻopili i ke ʻano a me ka manaʻo o ka makemake e loaʻa kahi pilina pili. Eia naʻe, pono e hoʻomaopopo kekahi i kēia mau moeʻuhane he hōʻailona wale nō a hiki i ka hopena ke hōʻike i nā manaʻolana a me nā makemake o ka mea moeʻuhane.
