ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana o kekahi i kona aloha iaʻu
Ke hoʻololi nā hoa ʻelua i ke aloha a hōʻike i nā manaʻo me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, he hōʻailona kēia o ke kūpaʻa o kā lāua pilina a me ke alo o nā manaʻo like e hoʻonui ai i ka hauʻoli i ko lāua ola like.
I ka hihia o ka poʻe i pili ʻole i ka pili aloha, ʻike ʻia kekahi e hōʻike ana i ko lākou aloha ʻaʻole paha like nā manaʻo.
Hōʻike paha ia i ka ʻokoʻa o ka mea i ʻike ʻia, no ka mea, ua hui pū ʻia nā manaʻo o kekahi a ʻaʻole e hōʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a i ʻole ke aloha maoli.
No nā kāne i hoʻopaʻa ʻole ʻia, inā loaʻa iā lākou kahi hōʻike aloha mai ka wahine mai, hiki ke kuhi hewa ʻia kēia e hōʻike i nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe ma mua o ke aloha maoli.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kekahi e haʻi ana i kona aloha iaʻu e Ibn Sirin
Manaʻo ka poʻe unuhi ʻōlelo ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka poʻe i loko o kā lākou moeʻuhane e hele ana i nā kūlana paʻakikī e hōʻike i nā ʻike hopohopo a me nā hakakā noʻonoʻo a lākou e ʻike nei.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā ʻike ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane he aloha ʻo ia i kekahi kanaka, hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i ka hohonu o nā manaʻo a me kāna kūpaʻa nui i kēlā pilina.
No ka poʻe i loaʻa ʻole he hoa pili i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana i ka manaʻo hiki ke ma mua o ka ʻike o ka hāʻule ʻana i ke aloha maoli.
ʻO ka poʻe hoʻokahi, hiki i ka moeʻuhane o ka ʻike ʻia ke wānana i ka hiki ʻana mai o nā manawa kūpono no ka pilina a male male koke.
No nā kāne, ʻo nā hiʻohiʻona o ka haʻi ʻana i loko o kā lākou mau moeʻuhane e lilo i hōʻailona maikaʻi o ka hauʻoli a me ka lokahi i ka pilina male, e hōʻike ana i nā manawa o ke kūpaʻa a me ke aloha hou.
No nā wāhine hāpai, hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ko lākou mau manaʻolana no ka loaʻaʻana o ke kākoʻo a me ke kākoʻo mai nā poʻe kokoke, e hāʻawi iā lākou i ka hōʻoia a me ka hilinaʻi i ka wā o ka hāpaiʻana.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ke kanaka e hōʻike ana i kona aloha iaʻu ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hoʻokahi
Ke moeʻuhane kekahi kaikamahine male ʻole i kēlā moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana paha i kona manaʻo no ka nele o ke aloha a me ke aloha i kona ola, a me kona makemake nui e ʻimi i kahi mea e hoʻopiha ai i kēia hemahema me ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka mālama.
E hōʻike ana paha kēia moeʻuhane e loaʻa koke iā ia ka manawa e hālāwai ai me kahi mea e hoʻohuli ikaika i kona hoihoi, e hāʻawi ana i ka manaʻolana e loaʻa ka hauʻoli a me ka ʻoluʻolu o ka naʻau āna i makemake mau ai.
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kekahi e haʻi ana i kona aloha iaʻu ma ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine male
Ke ʻike ka wahine male ma kāna moeʻuhane e haʻi ana ʻo ia i ke aloha, he hōʻailona paha ia i kona makemake e hoʻololi i nā manaʻo o ke aloha a me ke aloha i kona ola male ʻana.
Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i kāna noi subconscious e hoʻōla i ka pilina me kāna hoa ola, no laila e hele ma mua o nā stereotypes a me ka hana hou ʻana i kēlā me kēia lā e noho i kahi ākea nui i ka pilina male.
He kahea ia i ke kane e malama nui aku i kana wahine, i mea e mau ai ke aloha a me ke aloha mawaena o laua.
Ua moeʻuhane au i kekahi e haʻi mai iaʻu i kona aloha i ka wahine hemo
I kekahi manawa, ʻike ka wahine male male iā ia iho e ʻike ana i loko o kāna mau moeʻuhane ua wehe kekahi i kona mau manaʻo aloha, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ʻo ia i manaʻo like.
Hiki i kēia ʻano moe ke hōʻike i nā pilikia a i ʻole nā pilikia e hiki mai ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kekahi e haʻi mai iaʻu i kona aloha i kahi wahine hemo e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo o ka huikau a i ʻole ka maopopo ʻole e manaʻo paha kekahi wahine i ke komo ʻana i nā pilina aloha hou.
Ponoʻo ia e mālama i kēia moeʻuhane ma keʻano he hōʻailona e noʻonoʻo pono a nānā pono i kona mau manaʻo ma mua o ka hoʻokomoʻana i kekahi pilina hou.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana o kekahi i ko lākou aloha i kahi wahine hemo he kono iā ia e noʻonoʻo hou i kona mau manaʻo a hoʻoholo i kāna mea e ʻimi maoli nei ma kona ʻaoʻao naʻau.
Hoʻoikaika pū ʻo ia iā ia e noʻonoʻo i kāna mau mea nui a me kāna mau manaʻo no ka wā e hiki mai ana, a paipai iā ia e hoʻomaikaʻi i kāna mau pilina i kēia manawa a i ʻole e ʻimi e ʻimi i kahi hoa pili i kona naʻau a me ka waiwai.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana i ke aloha mai nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua ma ka moeʻuhane e like me Ibn Sirin
I loko o nā moeʻuhane, hiki ke hōʻike i kahi manaʻo palekana a me ka hōʻoluʻolu, a me ka hōʻikeʻana i nā manaʻo o ke aloha e hōʻike ana, e like me ka weheweheʻana o kekahi mau unuhi'ōlelo, nāʻike maikaʻi e hiki mai ana i loko o ke ola o ke kanaka.
No ka wahine ʻōpio hoʻokahi, aia nā wehewehe e hōʻike ana i kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike i kona mau manaʻo e hōʻike ana paha i ke kokoke ʻana o kahi kūlana hou a hauʻoli i kona ola, e like me ka male.
No ka poʻe moeʻuhane i ʻike i loko o kā lākou mau moeʻuhane i ka hoʻololi ʻana i ke aloha a me ke aloha, hiki ke wānana i nā loli maikaʻi a me ka puka ʻana o nā manawa kūpono i mua o lākou.
He aha ka manaʻo o koʻu moeʻuhane i kahi kaikamahine nani e hōʻike ana i kona aloha iaʻu?
Ke moeʻuhane ke kanaka hoʻokahi e hōʻike ana ʻo ia i nā manaʻo aloha ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ka hoʻokō ʻana i kāna mau makemake a me nā kūleʻa nui i kona ola.
Inā hōʻole ʻia kēia mau manaʻo i loko o ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ka hiki ʻana mai o nā pilikia a i ʻole nā pilikia e kū i kona ala i nā papahana āna e hoʻolālā nei.
Ma kekahi poʻomanaʻo ʻē aʻe, inā ʻike ke kanaka hoʻokahi ma kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana ʻo ia i kona aloha i mua o kahi hui o ka poʻe, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i kona hiki ke lanakila i nā pilikia e kū nei, ʻoi aku ka pili i kāna ʻoihana.
Hōʻike pū ʻia ka mahalo a mahalo ʻia kāna mau hana a me kāna hana ʻoihana e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
No ke kāne male i moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kāna aloha a ʻo kāna wahine ke kumu nui o ka moeʻuhane, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia me ka nūhou maikaʻi o ka hauʻoli a me ka pōmaikaʻi e hiki koke mai ana i ke ola o ka male.
He hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane i ka hiki ke hoʻololi maikaʻi e like me ka hāpai ʻana.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi mea aʻu i ʻike ʻole ai e haʻi ana i kona aloha iaʻu
ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona moe kahi e ʻike ʻia ai kahi malihini a hōʻike i ke aloha iā ʻoe he mea maʻamau, a no ka mahalo ʻana i kā lākou mau manaʻo, pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia nā ʻano he nui o kēlā me kēia lā.
No kahi kaikamahine i manaʻo kaʻawale a makemake e ʻike i ka nānā ʻana a me ke aloha, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane paha ka hopena o kona makemake huna no ka pilina manaʻo me kahi mea i komo ʻole i kona ola.
Inā pili ka moeʻuhane me nā manaʻo manaʻolana, hiki iā ia ke wānana i kahi male kokoke a i ʻole ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi huakaʻi manaʻo hou.
Hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke lawe i loko o lākou i nā wānana o nā hanana pīhoihoi maikaʻi a i ʻole ka hoʻomaikaʻi maikaʻi ʻana o ka pilina pili kanaka.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i koʻu hoahānau e hōʻike ana i kona aloha iaʻu
Ke moeʻuhane kahi kaikamahine i male ʻole e hōʻike ana kona hoahānau i kona manaʻo iā ia, hōʻike kēia i kāna ʻimi ʻana i ka mahanahana o ka naʻau a me ka kamaʻāina maoli.
Inā loaʻa iā ia kēia mau manaʻo maikaʻi ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ka noho ʻana o kahi kanaka i loko o kona ola e huki ana i kona manaʻo a i ʻole ʻo ia e nānā nui ai.
ʻOiai, inā ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke pane aku i kēia ʻike ma ke ʻano he ʻano, hōʻike kēia i kona kānalua a hopohopo paha e pili ana i ka hoʻokokoke ʻana a i ʻole ka hana ʻana i kekahi i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana o kekahi i kāna aloha iaʻu i ka wā e uē ana no nā wahine hoʻokahi
Inā moeʻuhane ka wahine male ʻole e haʻi ana kekahi i kona mau manaʻo iā ia i ka wā e uē ana, hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia he hōʻailona ia o ka huli ʻana o nā hanana i loko o kona ola aloha.
Ma kahi pōʻaiapili kahi i ʻike ʻole ai ka wahine i ka mea i nīnau ʻia, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke lawe i kahi ʻōlelo aʻo no nā pilikia nui e hiki mai ana iā ia.
Eia nō naʻe, inā pili nā manaʻo o ke aloha ma waena ona a me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ka hiki ʻana mai o kahi manawa hou i piha i ka hauʻoli a me ka male paha.
No laila, ʻo ka wahine i loaʻa i kēlā moeʻuhane e aʻo ʻia e noʻonoʻo hohonu i kona mau manaʻo a nānā pono i kona mau manaʻo, e hoʻomākaukau ai i nā mea e hiki mai ana mai nā hanana i kona ola maoli.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana ʻaʻole aloha i ka moeʻuhane e like me Ibn Sirin
I loko o nā moeʻuhane, hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā manawa e hōʻike ai kekahi i kona aloha ʻole i kekahi.
Hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia, e like me nā manaʻoʻiʻo, he hōʻailona pālua; Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, hōʻike paha ia i ka hiki ke hoʻololi a i ʻole nā pilikia i ke ola o ke kanaka i kēia manawa.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki ke ʻike ʻia he hōʻailona o ke kū ʻana i kekahi mau manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e like me ka inaina a i ʻole ka huhū i loaʻa i ke kanaka.
No ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi, hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kona makaʻu nui no ka lilo ʻana o kekahi mea nui iā ia, a i ʻole e hōʻike i kona manaʻo hopohopo e pili ana i nā loli i kona pilina pilikino.
Ma keʻano holoʻokoʻa, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia mau moeʻuhane he hōʻailona aia kekahi mau kūlana paʻakikī a i ʻole nā manaʻo hoʻopaʻapaʻa e pono e hoʻoponopono ʻia.
Hāʻawi kēia mau hihiʻo i ka manawa e noʻonoʻo ai a noʻonoʻo i nā pilina o kēia manawa, e hana e hoʻomaopopo i ka hohonu o nā manaʻo pilikino, a e ʻimi i nā ala e neʻe ai ma waho o lākou ma ke ʻano olakino.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kāne e haʻi ana i ke kumakaia ma ka moeʻuhane e Ibn Sirin
ʻO ka manaʻo o ka ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa male ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane, e like me kekahi mau wehewehe ʻana, e like paha me kahi hōʻailona i manaʻo ʻole ʻia o kekahi mau mea maikaʻi, e like me ka kūpaʻa a me ka kūpaʻa i nā pilina aloha.
Hōʻike kēia mau moeʻuhane,
Wahi a kekahi mau wehewehe ʻana, nā ʻano o ke olakino noʻonoʻo a me ka hauʻoli i hiki i ke kanaka ke manaʻo.
Hōʻike kēia mau hihiʻo i ka kūpaʻa a me ka mahalo i waena o nā hoa kāne, kahi e alakaʻi ai i ka manaʻo maikaʻi a me ka hōʻoia i ka pilina.
He mea nui e komo i kēia mau memo me ka ʻike hohonu a noʻonoʻo i ko lākou mau manaʻo no ka mea e ʻike ana iā lākou.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka haʻi ʻana o ke aloha e Imam Al-Sadiq
Ke hōʻike nei ke kaikamahine i nā manaʻo aloha a ʻaʻole i loaʻa ka ʻae ʻia, hōʻike paha kēia e kū nei ʻo ia i kekahi mau pilikia, akā naʻe, hiki iā ia ke lanakila a hoʻōla koke.
Inā hōʻike ke kaikamahine i kona aloha ma ka moeʻuhane a loaʻa i kahi mea hauʻoli e pili ana iā ia, hiki i kēia ke wānana i ka hiki ke hoʻokumu i kahi pilina koʻikoʻi a male male paha me ka mea i nīnau ʻia.
Ke ʻike ke kanaka iā ia iho e haʻi ana i kona mau manaʻo i mua o kahi hui o nā kānaka, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia, e like me ka ʻōlelo a Imam Al-Sadiq, he hōʻailona o ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kākoʻo a me ka holomua i kona ola.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana i kona mahalo i ka moeʻuhane, e like me ka ʻōlelo a Ibn Sirin
Ke hōʻike nei ke kāne hoʻokahi i ka manaʻo mahalo i kahi kaikamahine a koho ʻo ia e hōʻole iā ia, e hōʻike ana kēia e kū nei ke kāne i nā pilikia i kona ola.
Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i kahi ʻeha ʻeha i loaʻa iā ia ma muli o ka hopena o ke kaikamahine.
Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, inā loaʻa i ke kaikamahine kona mau manaʻo me ka minoʻaka a me kaʻaeʻana,ʻo ia hoʻi, ua kokoke ke kanaka'ōpio i ka hoʻokōʻana i kahi pahuhopu āna i makemake ai.
Pēlā nō, inā hōʻike ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi i kona mahalo i kekahi, hōʻike paha kēia i kona ulu ʻana i kona manaʻo aloha no kēlā kanaka.
Wahi a Imam Al-Sadiq, ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana i ke aloha e lawe i loko o lākou i ka nūhou maikaʻi a me ka maikaʻi, ke ʻae ke Akua.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana iaʻu e haʻi ana i koʻu aloha i kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane e Ibn Sirin
Ke ʻike ke kanaka ʻōpio ma kāna moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana ʻo ia i kona mau manaʻo i kahi wahine i ʻae i kēia mau manaʻo, he hōʻailona maikaʻi paha kēia i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi pilina pili i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
Eia naʻe, inā i loko o ka moeʻuhane ka hōʻoleʻana o kahi kaikamahine, hiki ke unuhiʻia kēia ma keʻano he'ōlelo aʻo a he hōʻailona paha o ka nohoʻana o nā pilikia e hiki ai i ke kanaka'ōpio ke kū i kānaʻoihana.
No ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi e moeʻuhane ana e hōʻike ana i kona mau manaʻo i kekahi, hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka hopena a me kona hoihoi i kēia kanaka i ke ola maoli.
Inā pau ka moeʻuhane me ka pane ʻana o ke kanaka ʻōpio i kāna haʻi ʻana, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ka manaʻolana a hōʻike i nā ʻike hauʻoli e hiki mai ana i ke ola o ke kaikamahine.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i koʻu hoahānau e haʻi mai ana iaʻu ke aloha nei au iā ʻoe no ka wahine hoʻokahi
ʻO ka nānā ʻana i kahi hoahānau ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona mau manaʻo i ka mea moeʻuhane e lawe i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo.
Hōʻike paha kēia i ka mahalo o ka mea moeʻuhane i ka mea i nīnau ʻia, me ka makemake e hoʻoikaika i ka pilina me ia, a i ʻole he hōʻailona ia o nā manaʻo nui o ka mea moeʻuhane iā ia.
No ke kanaka hoʻokahi, ʻo ka hiʻohiʻona o kahi hoahānau ma ka moeʻuhane e haʻi ana i kona mau manaʻo e hōʻike i ka mahalo ʻia ma waena o lākou a i ʻole aia kekahi i aloha maoli iā ia i ke ola maoli.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka haʻi ʻana mai o kekahi iaʻu ua makemake ʻo ia iaʻu
Ke moeʻuhane ke kanaka e hōʻike ana kekahi kanaka i kona mau manaʻo aloha iā ia, he hōʻailona paha ia aia kekahi mea e lawe nei i kēia mau manaʻo iā ia i kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻO kēia kanaka paha ka hoa āna i manaʻo ai e loaʻa.
Hiki i kēia ʻano moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka hilinaʻi o ke kanaka iā ia iho a me kona hiki ke hoʻohuli i ka manaʻo a hoʻopuka i nā manaʻo maikaʻi i ka poʻe e puni ana iā ia.
