ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana iaʻu a me kaʻu kāne mua ma ka moena
Ke ʻike ʻia ke kiʻi o ka ex-kāne i loko o nā moeʻuhane o kahi wahine hemo, ʻoiai inā ʻike ʻo ia iā ia ma kahi kokoke iā ia ma kahi moe, hiki i kēia ʻike ke lawe i nā manaʻo he nui e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo huna, nā makemake huna, a i ʻole nā hōʻailona o nā loli i ka wā e hiki mai ana. ola o ka mea moeuhane.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane o aʻu a me kaʻu kāne mua ma kahi moe e hiki ke lilo i aniani e hōʻike ana i nā kūlana manaʻo paʻakikī a i ʻole nā manaʻo i ʻike ʻole ʻia kekahi o kāna mau wehewehe ʻana i ka manaʻo nostalgia a i ʻole ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kahi manawa e hui hou ai a ʻaʻole paha. ʻoiaʻiʻo.
I kekahi mau pōʻaiapili, hiki i ka moeʻuhane o aʻu a me kaʻu kāne mua ma kahi moe ke hōʻike i ka makemake o ka mea moeʻuhane e hoʻihoʻi i kona pilina a i ʻole kona mihi i ka hoʻoholo e hoʻokaʻawale. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki ke hōʻike i ka makemake o ka wahine e hoʻokō i ke kūpaʻa o ka naʻau a me ka hōʻoluʻolu noʻonoʻo, ʻoiai inā e hele ana ʻo ia i kahi manawa o ka haunaele a me nā pilikia. Eia kekahi, hiki i ka hihiʻo ke hōʻailona o ka ulu a me ka hoʻololi maikaʻi i ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane, e like me ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ke kūlana kālā a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻike ʻoihana.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi wahine male male e mare ana i kāna kāne mua
ʻO kahi hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i ke ʻano o ka ex-kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine hemo, ʻoiai inā ʻo nā manaʻo mihi a me ke kaumaha e hele pū me kēia ʻike, e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo paʻakikī āna e ʻike nei e pili ana i kāna pilina ma mua. Hōʻike paha kēia i kona makemake nui e hoʻoponopono i kēlā pilina a hoʻihoʻi i nā pilina i ko lākou kūlana mua. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo kēia moeʻuhane paha he hōʻailona ia o kāna mau kūʻē i loko, ʻoiai ʻo ia i ka hakakā ma waena o ka makemake e kūkulu hou a me ka hopohopo e hana hou i ka pōʻino i hana ʻia i ka wā i hala.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana iaʻu a me kaʻu kāne mua ma ka moena e Ibn Sirin
I loko o ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ka manaʻo o ka wahine aia ʻo ia ma kahi hoʻokahi me kāna kāne mua, ma luna o kahi moe, he mau manaʻo like ʻole e like me ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane. 'Ōlelo nā mea unuhi'ōlelo, hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka halaʻana o ke kūlana o nā paio ma waena o ka wahine a me kāna kāne mua, a me kahi hōʻailona o ka hiki ke pili kokoke i waena o lākou. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i ka huli ʻana i ka ʻaoʻao i ka wā i hala a hoʻomaka i kahi manawa hou i hoʻomalu ʻia e nā manaʻo aloha a me ka mahalo.
Inā pili ka moeʻuhane i nā kūkākūkā ma waena o ka wahine a me kāna kāne mua i ko lāua noho pū ʻana ma kahi moe, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i ka manaʻo o ka wahine e hoʻopaʻa i kāna mau pono a me kāna mau kuleana ma hope o ka kaʻawale ʻana. Hāpai kēia ʻike i ka manaʻolana no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻike koʻikoʻi e pono ai nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua.
I kekahi manawa, hiki i ka hihiʻo ke hōʻailona i nā pilikia e kū ai ka wahine ma hope o ka haʻihaʻi. ʻO kona noho ʻana me kāna kāne mua ma ka home ma kahi moe e hōʻike ana e kū ana ʻo ia i kekahi mau pilikia, akā i ka manawa like e hōʻike ana i ka hiki ke lanakila i kēlā mau pilikia a me nā pilikia.
I nā kumu'ē aʻe, hiki i ka hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka makemake o ka wahine no kāna kāne i hala, keʻoleʻo ia e hauʻoli i ka moeʻuhane. Hiki i kēia mau manaʻo i loko o ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i nā makemake hohonu e hoʻohou i ka pilina a i ʻole e ʻimi i ka maluhia o loko ma ka pani ʻana i nā ʻaoʻao ʻeha o ka wā i hala.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hiamoe ʻana i ka lima o kaʻu wahine mua
ʻO nā moeʻuhane e hui pū ana i kahi wahine hemo me kāna kāne mua, ma o nā kiʻi e like me ka hiamoe ʻana ma kona mau lima, e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo hohonu e lawe pū me lākou i nā makemake a me nā manaʻo e pili ana i kēia pae o kona ola. Ke moeʻuhane ka wahine i kēia hiʻohiʻona, hōʻike paha kēia i kona makemake e lanakila i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia i paʻi i ko lākou pilina a nānā i ka hiki ke hoʻokuʻikahi a kūkulu hou i nā alahaka.
Inā i loko o ka moeʻuhane, hauʻoli ʻo ia i nā lima o kāna kāne i hala, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i kona makemake e hoʻopau i nā kaumaha a me nā pilikia i hōʻiliʻili ʻia ma luna ona, a me kāna ʻimi ʻana i ka maluhia noʻonoʻo a me ka hōʻoluʻolu.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā loaʻa ka moeʻuhane ma kahi wahi i ʻike ʻole ʻia, hōʻike ia i ka hiki ke hoʻololi nui a maikaʻi hoʻi i ke ola, e hōʻailona ana i kahi hana hou e hiki ke lawe pū me ia i nā ʻike a me nā manawa kūpono ʻole.
I nā hihia ʻē aʻe, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hoʻomālamalama i ke ʻano o ke kanaka e ʻimi nei i ke kūpaʻa a me ka palekana, ʻoiai inā e moeʻuhane ka wahine e hoʻi ana ʻo ia i kāna kāne mua me kona makemake. Hōʻike paha kēia i nā manaʻo hohonu e mālama i ka paʻa ʻana o ka ʻohana a me kona makemake paha e pale i kāna mau keiki mai nā hopena o ka kaʻawale.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ka hoʻi ʻana i ka hale o ka mea i hemo
Ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi wahine kaʻawale e hoʻi ana i ka hale o kāna kāne mua, hiki ke lawe i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo like ʻole e pili ana i kona kūlana noʻonoʻo a me nā kūlana o ka hihiʻo. Ke ʻike ka wahine kaʻawale iā ia iho e hoʻi ana i ka hale o kāna kāne mua, me ka ʻoliʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, e hōʻike ana kēia i kona makemake nui e lanakila i nā ʻokoʻa a hoʻopau i ka mokuā ma waena ona a me kāna hoa aloha iā ia.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo kēia hiʻohiʻona no ka wahine e minamina a kaumaha paha i ka wā e hoʻomanaʻo ai i ka home o kāna kāne mua e hōʻike ana i ka nui o nā waiwai waiwai e hiki mai ana iā ia i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻoholo i nā aie a i ʻole nā kuleana kālā koʻikoʻi.
Hiki i kēia mau hihiʻo ke hōʻike i nā loli maikaʻi i manaʻo ʻia i loko o ke ola o ka wahine, e hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻomaikaʻi piha i nā pae like ʻole. I ka hopena, hiki ke ʻike ʻia kahi wahine kaʻawale e hoʻi ana i ka home o kāna kāne mua ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i kāna mau pono waiwai a me ka hōʻoia ʻana i kona hiki ke hoʻihoʻi hou i kona kūpaʻa a loaʻa ka palekana kālā.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka honi ʻana i kaʻu wahine mua
Ināʻike ka wahine male male i kāna moeʻuhane e honi anaʻo ia me kāna kāne mua a hauʻoli, he hōʻailona kēia o kona hiki ke lanakila i nā pilikia o kēia manawa. Inā hana kēia mau honi i ke kaumaha i loko ona, hōʻike kēia i ka mihi no nā hana i hala. ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka honi ʻana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka ex-kāne a me ka uē ʻana e hōʻike ana aia kahi paʻa hohonu ma waena o lākou i ke ola maoli.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka honi ʻana me kāu kāne ex-kāne me nā manaʻo o ka hōʻoluʻolu hiki ke hōʻike i kahi kūlana pōʻino i ka ʻōlelo kālā. ʻOiaiʻo ka manaʻo o ka hauʻoli i ka honiʻana i ka ex-kāne e hōʻike ana i ke kūʻokoʻa o ka wahine mai nā kaumaha kālā e kaumaha ana iā ia.
ʻO ka hope, inā honi ʻia me ka ex-kāne me ka makemake ʻole o ka ex-kāne, hōʻike kēia i ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ko lāua pilina a me ka hiki ke kūkulu hou ʻia ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka wā ma mua.
ʻIke hou i ka wahine hemo i ka moeʻuhane no ka wahine hemo
ʻO ka wahine male male e ʻike ana i kāna kāne mua e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻouka a pepehi paha iā ia i loko o kāna mau moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana paha i kahi kūlana o ka hopohopo a me ke ʻano paʻakikī āna e ʻike nei i kēia mau lā. Inā ʻike ʻo ia iā ia iho i ka hui o kāna kāne mua ma kahi i makemake ʻole ʻia, he hōʻailona paha kēia e kū nei ʻo ia i nā pilikia me nā poʻe pili a pono e makaʻala.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kāna kāne mua e pili ana i nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hemo ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka pani ʻana i ka ʻaoʻao ma kēia mokuna o kona ola a me ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia pili me ia. Inā ʻike ʻia ka hana ʻino ʻana o ka ex-kāne i ka wahine i haʻalele ʻia ma ka hahau ʻana iā ia, hiki i kāna ʻike ke hōʻike ʻia e ʻike ʻia ʻo ia i nā pilikia a i ʻole nā machinations mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. ʻOiai ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka nalo ʻana o kona hale i kāna kāne mua e hōʻike ana i ke kū ʻana o nā paio a i ʻole nā pilikia e ala mai ana ma waena o lākou.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana iaʻu a me kaʻu kāne mua ma kahi moe no kahi wahine male
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka ex-kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine male, hiki ke lawe i kekahi mau manaʻo e hōʻike ana i nā ʻano o kona ola i kēia manawa. I kekahi mau hihia, hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke hōʻailona o ka hopohopo a i ʻole ke koʻikoʻi noʻonoʻo a ka wahine e ʻike nei, ʻoiai inā ʻo kēia mau hiʻohiʻona e pili ana i nā kūlana o ka haunaele a i ʻole ka paio ma waena ona a me kāna kāne i kēia manawa.
ʻO kekahi wehewehe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i ka ʻike ʻana i ka ex-kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike paha i ka hāpai ʻana o ka wahine a i ʻole ka pili ʻana i ka manaʻo i nā keiki i hiki i kona ola. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki i kēia mau hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka makemake e hoʻihoʻi i kekahi mau ʻano o ke ola ma mua a i ʻole e hōʻike i ka mihi a nostalgia no ka wā i hala.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi moena nani a hoʻomaʻemaʻe paha e hōʻike i nā manaʻo o ke aloha a me ka palekana i manaʻo ʻia e ka wahine i kāna kāne i kēia manawa, a e hōʻike ana i kona kūpaʻa ʻana a me ka noʻonoʻo i kona ola kaʻana me ia.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i kaʻu kāne mua e hiamoe ana ma luna o koʻu wahi moe i ka moeʻuhane
Ināʻike ka wahine i kāna moeʻuhane e moe ana kāna kāne mua ma luna o kona wahi moe, he hōʻailona paha ia ua halaʻo ia i kahi kūlana piha i ka haunaele. Hōʻike kēia ʻike i ka hiki ke hoʻihoʻi hou i nā pilina a hoʻomaka i kahi ʻaoʻao hou i kekahi manawa. Eia naʻe, inā ʻike ʻo ia e kaʻana like ana ʻo ia i kahi moena me ia ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia i kona holomua i ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kūlana koʻikoʻi i kona ola.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka ʻauʻau ʻana me kaʻu kāne mua
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka ʻauʻau me ka ex-kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo hou o ke aloha a me ka pilina maikaʻi me ka ex-kāne. Manaʻo ʻia kēia ʻike he hōʻailona o nā kūlana i hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia a hoʻonui ʻia nā pōmaikaʻi i ke ola. Hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā hopohopo a me nā pilikia e pili ana i ka mea moeʻuhane. Eia kekahi, hōʻike kēia hihiʻo i ka hiki ʻana mai o ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻololi maikaʻi ʻana i ke ola.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu kāne ex-kāne e moe me aʻu ma ka moeʻuhane e Ibn Sirin
I kekahi manawa, moeʻuhane ka wahine i haʻalele i ka male e pili hou ana ʻo ia me kāna hoa mua ma ka moeʻuhane. Hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke lawe i nā manaʻo like ʻole e pili ana i ke kūlana noʻonoʻo a me ka manaʻo o ka wahine. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kona makemake i ka paʻa o ka naʻau āna i manaʻo ai, aiʻole e hōʻike paha i ka makemake e loaʻa i kekahi e kaʻana like i kona ola a me kona mau manaʻo.
Inā moeʻuhane ka wahine e pili ana ʻo ia me kāna hoa mua, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i kona pono e mālama ʻia a kākoʻo ʻia e nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, no ka mea, ua mehameha ʻo ia. ʻO kēia moeʻuhane paha ke manaʻo nei ua mihi ka ex-partner i ka hopena o ka pilina a makemake e hoʻihoʻi hou ma hope o ka hoʻololi ʻana i kekahi o kāna ʻano.
Inā kū'ē ka wahine i kēia pilina ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki iā ia ke hōʻike e kū neiʻo ia i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia o ka naʻau i loko o kona ola, kahi e hōʻoluʻoluʻole aiʻo ia i kekahi mauʻano o kona ola.
Hoʻomaopopo kēia mau moeʻuhane a me kā lākou wehewehe ʻana i ke koʻikoʻi o ka ʻimi ʻana i ka maluhia noʻonoʻo a me ke kūpaʻa ʻana o ka naʻau, a hōʻike i ka pono o kēlā me kēia kanaka e kū i kona mau manaʻo a hana pū me lākou ma ke ʻano olakino.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu kāne mua e moe ana me aʻu a hōʻole wau
ʻO ka wahine male male iʻikeʻia ma ka moeʻuhane e ho'āʻo ana kāna kāne mua e hoʻokumu i kahi pilina me ia a hōʻoleʻo ia i kēia noi e hōʻike ana i kona kūʻokoʻa a me kona ikaika pilikino. Hōʻike kēia moeʻuhane e hoʻomaka ʻo ia i kahi mokuna hou a pōmaikaʻi i loko o kona ola, ma muli paha o ka mare ʻana i kekahi kanaka e lawe mai iā ia i kahi ola hauʻoli a kūpaʻa.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i kona hōʻole ʻana e hoʻi i ka wā i hala a i ʻole e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻihoʻi ʻana i ka pilina me kāna kāne mua, e hōʻike ana i ke ʻano o ka naʻau a me ke kūʻokoʻa mai nā pilina ʻaʻole e lawelawe i kona hauʻoli a i ʻole ka ulu pilikino. Hiki ke unuhiʻia kēiaʻano moeʻuhane ma keʻano he hōʻailona o ka uluʻana iā ia iho a me ka hoʻonuiʻana i ke kūʻokoʻa no ka wahine hemo.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i kaʻu kāne mua e moe ana me aʻu e honi ana i koʻu lima
Inā moeʻuhane ka wahine e honi ana kāna kāne i kona lima, hiki ke unuhiʻia kēia he hōʻailona e lawe anaʻo ia i ke kuleana no nā keiki a mālama i kā lākou mau koi. Inā aia ka honi ma ka lima ʻākau, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ka hiki ke hana like ma waena o lākou i kahi papahana kālā maikaʻi. Inā ʻike ka ex-kāne e honi i kona lima a uē, he hōʻailona paha kēia o kona makemake e hoʻihoʻi i ka pilina. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka honi ʻana i ka lima ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia waiwai.
Ke huli nei i ka moeʻuhane i ʻike ai ke kanaka i kāna kāne mua e honi ana iā ia ma ka waha, hiki ke wehewehe ʻia he hōʻailona o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka nūhou hauʻoli a hoʻomaka i kahi ʻaoʻao hou i kona ola, e lawe mai ana i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli. Eia kekahi, hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i ka nostalgia a me ka makemake e hoʻi i ka hoa mua.
Inā ʻike ʻole ʻia ka ex-kāne i loko o ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia i ke alo ʻana i kekahi mau pilikia a me nā pilikia. Inā ʻaʻole hiki i ka wahine ke hopu iā ia a pakele paha mai ia mea, ua manaʻo ʻia kēia he hōʻailona o ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka hopohopo a loaʻa ka hōʻoluʻolu.
