ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ke kahuna pule
Ma ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, hiki i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi kāne male ke loaʻa nā manaʻo like ʻole no ke kaikamahine hoʻokahi. ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hele ʻana me kahi kāne male e hōʻailona paha i ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka mea moeʻuhane i kahi kūlana ola hou, e like me ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi mokuna hou i ke aʻo ʻana, kahi hana, a male paha. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka ʻai ʻana me ke kāne mare, hōʻike ia i kā lāua hui ʻana i ka lawe ʻana i nā kuleana kālā a me nā kuleana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ke kāne male e hele ana ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o kona hoʻi koke ʻana mai. Inā loaʻa i ka mea moeʻuhane kahi kelepona mai kāna kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ia paha ke ʻano e lohe koke ʻo ia i ka nūhou hauʻoli. ʻO ka hele ʻana me ke kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka hoʻoikaika pū ʻana ma waena o nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua e hoʻokō i ka male.
Inā hele pū ʻoe me kāu kāne male ma ke ala lōʻihi ma ka moeʻuhane, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i nā manaʻolana no kahi manawa lōʻihi. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou e hele pū ana ma kahi pōʻeleʻele, ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, he hōʻailona paha ia e hana hewa ana ka mea moeʻuhane a hana hewa me kāna kāne. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hele wāwae ʻole me kahi kāne hoʻopalau e aʻo mai i ka pilikia a me ka lawe ʻana i nā hopohopo maʻamau.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana iā Al-Khatib ma ka moeʻuhane no nā wahine hoʻokahi e Ibn Sirin
Hāʻawi ʻo Ibn Sirin i kekahi mau wehewehe ʻana o nā hihiʻo e pili ana i ke kāne male ma nā moeʻuhane o nā kaikamahine male ʻole. I ka ʻike ʻana o ke kaikamahine i loko o kāna moeʻuhane e loaʻa ana kāna kāne male i ka maʻi, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ke ʻano o ka ʻāʻī a me nā kuʻikahi i loko o kā lāua pilina.
ʻOiai ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke kāne mare e ʻakaʻaka ana ma ka moeʻuhane e lawe ana i nā manaʻo maikaʻi, e like me nā mea maʻalahi a me ka lā kokoke o ka male. Inā ʻike ke kaikamahine iā ia iho e hele pū me kāna kāne male i ka ua, he hōʻailona kēia e kali ana ʻo ia i kahi ola male piha i ka hauʻoli, hōʻoluʻolu, a me ka maikaʻi nui.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka make ʻana o ke kāne hoʻopalau no ka wahine hoʻokahi
ʻO ka weheweheʻana o kaʻikeʻana i ka makeʻana o ke kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane no nā wāhine hoʻokahi hiki ke hoʻololi i kona manaʻo. I kekahi manawa, he hōʻailona paha kēia ʻike no ka hopohopo e pau ka pilina a i ʻole e kū ana i nā pilikia e keʻakeʻa ai i ka hoʻomau ʻana o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana. ʻO ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka make ʻana o ke kāne mare e hōʻike paha i ka manaʻo hopohopo o ka mea moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā hana a kāna kāne male, ʻo ia paha ka hewa a i ʻole ka hewa.
ʻO ka manaʻo kaumaha loa i ka moeʻuhane ma muli o ka make ʻana o kahi kāne male hiki ke hōʻike i nā ʻike pilikino i piha i nā pilikia a i ʻole nā pilikia. Inā ʻike ʻia ke kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia kiʻi ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo o loko o ke kaumaha a i ʻole ka huhū no ka hoʻokō ʻole ʻana i kahi mea a ka mea moeʻuhane i makemake ai.
ʻO ka hōʻike ʻana i nā manaʻo e like me ka paʻi ʻana a i ʻole ka uwē nui ʻana i ka make ʻana o ke kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane he mau hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole ia, no ka mea e hōʻike ana lākou e kū nei ka mea moeʻuhane i nā pilikia pilikino ikaika. ʻO ka uē a i ʻole ka uwē ʻana i ka moeʻuhane no kēia ʻano poho e hōʻike ana e ʻike ʻia ka mea moeʻuhane i nā hopohopo a me nā pilikia.
Ke ʻike ke kaikamahine hoʻopalau iā ia iho e kanikau ana i kāna kāne hoʻopalau, hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i kona makemake a me kona hiki ke kākoʻo i kāna kāne hoʻopalau i nā wā pilikia a kōkua i ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia. ʻO ka make ʻana o kahi kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane o ka pepehi kanaka e hōʻike paha i nā hana a i ʻole nā hoʻoholo e hōʻeha i kekahi.
ʻOiai ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka make ʻana o kahi kāne male ma ke kau ʻana e hōʻike ana i nā hewa nui a i ʻole nā hana hewa. Inā he maʻi ka make ʻana o ka mea haʻiʻōlelo, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka manaʻoʻiʻo a me ka ʻiʻini.
ʻO ka ʻokoʻa, inā ʻaʻole hōʻike ka moeʻuhane i nā manaʻo e like me ka uē ʻana i ka make o ke kāne mare, hiki i kēia kiʻi ke hōʻike i ka nele o ka manaʻo hohonu a i ʻole ka pili maoli ʻana i ke kāne male.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka honi ʻana i ke kāne male no nā wahine hoʻokahi
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka hihiʻo o ka honi ʻana o ke kāne mare he nui nā manaʻo e pili ana i ke ʻano a me kahi o ka honi. Ke moeʻuhane ka wahine e honi kāna kāne male i kona mau lima, e hōʻike paha kēia i ka pono o ke kāne male e kākoʻo iā ia ma kekahi mau mea. Ma ka pōʻaiapili like, inā hālāwai kekahi wahine me kāna kāne hoʻopalau e honi ana iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane, he hōʻailona paha kēia o kahi hālāwai kokoke a me ka hui ʻohana.
Hiki i ke kāne mare ke honi i ke poʻo o ka wahine ma ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kona inoa maikaʻi a me ka mahalo i nā kānaka. Inā moeʻuhane ʻo ia e honi ka kāne male i kona ʻāʻī, hōʻike paha kēia i kona manaʻo paʻa e kōkua iā ia a hoʻokuʻu paha iā ia mai kekahi mau ʻaiʻē a kaumaha paha.
No ka honiʻana i ka waha ma ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike pinepine ia i ka nohoʻana o nā makemake a me nā pahuhopu maʻamau ma waena o nā kāne i hoʻopaʻaʻia, e kākoʻo ana i ka pilina a hoʻoikaika i kona mau kumu. Inā ʻo ka honi ʻana ma ka waha me ke kuko, he hōʻailona kēia i ka manaʻo o ka mea moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka male ʻana a me kona ʻiʻini i ka paʻa o ka naʻau a kēia pilina.
Hāʻawi kēia mau wehewehe i ka manaʻo nui o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kāne honi e honi i ka moeʻuhane, akā he mea nui e haʻi ʻē aʻe ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moeʻuhane ma muli o ka pōʻaiapili a me nā kānaka.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻopili ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e Ibn Sirin
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane e lawe pū me ia i nā manaʻo like ʻole a me nā manaʻo, a ma waena o lākou, hele mai ka hihiʻo o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona o ka nūhou maikaʻi a me ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi hana hou e lawe mai ai i ka hauʻoli a me ka hauʻoli, ʻoiai inā pau ka hihiʻo me ka male.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa e hōʻike ana i ke alo ʻana i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi a i kekahi manawa ke ʻano o ke komo ʻana i nā kūkākūkā hoʻoholo. Ke ʻike ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane e hauʻoli ʻo ia i ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana i kāna hoʻopaʻa ʻana, he hōʻailona kēia e hele ana nā mea i kona makemake a lilo i mea maʻalahi.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā pili ka hihiʻo i ke kaumaha i ka wā o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana, hōʻike paha kēia i ke komo ʻana o ka mea moeʻuhane i kahi kūlana e lawe mai iā ia i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia. ʻO ka hoʻoikaika ʻana no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ka hoʻokō ʻana i kahi pahuhopu paʻakikī, ʻoiai ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kono hoʻopaʻa inoa hōʻailona ka loaʻa ʻana o ka nūhou hauʻoli.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kanaka e ʻimi ana i kahi hoa pili e hōʻike ana i ka manaʻo hopohopo a me ka hopohopo e pili ana i kekahi mea, a ʻo ka manaʻo ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka kali ʻana i nā hopena o kahi mea i hoʻomaka ai ka mea moeʻuhane e hoʻokō. ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ke kāne hoʻopalau e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā ʻōlelo hoʻohiki a me ka lawe ʻana i nā kuleana hou, ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke kāne hoʻopalau e hōʻike ana i ka hauʻoli a me ka leʻaleʻa.
No ka wahine hoʻokahi, ʻo ka hoʻi ʻana i kāna kāne hoʻopalau ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka makemake e hoʻāla hou i nā hoʻomanaʻo a me nā ʻike i hala, a inā noi ka ex-fakane e kala i ka moeʻuhane, hōʻike kēia i kona mihi hohonu.
ʻO ka paio ma waena o nā kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia, ʻoiai ʻo kahi pilina pili ma waena o lākou e hōʻike i ka hana ʻana i kahi hana hewa. ʻO ka hope,ʻo ka maleʻana o ka male i hoʻopaʻaʻia i ka moeʻuhane e hōʻoia i ka hoʻokōʻana i nā moeʻuhane a me nā pahuhopu o ka mea moeʻuhane.
ʻO ke komo ʻana i ke apo komo i loko o ka moeʻuhane
Ma ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, manaʻo ʻia ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i nā apo, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā apo komo, hiki ke lawe i nā manaʻo like ʻole a me nā hōʻailona e hōʻike ana i nā ʻano he nui o ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane. No ka laʻana, ʻo ke komo ʻana i ke apo hoʻopaʻa e hōʻike paha i ka lawe ʻana i nā kuleana, a i ʻole e hōʻike i nā manaʻo a me ka makemake e komo aloha a kūkulu i ʻohana.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka mea i hana ʻia ai ke apo hiki ke loaʻa nā manaʻo kikoʻī; Hiki i ke apo gula ke hōʻike i ka nalowale o ka waiwai a i ʻole ke ola, ʻoiai ke apo hao e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika a me ke kūpaʻa.
Inā he kālā ke apo, hōʻike paha kēia i ke kūpaʻa o ka pilina a me nā mea hoʻomana, ʻoiai ke komo ʻana i ke apo keleawe me he mea lā e lawe ana i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i ka pōʻino. ʻO ka mea hoihoi, ʻo ia ke ʻano like ʻole o ka wehewehe ʻana i ka wā e hoʻololi ai ka pōʻaiapili, e like me ke ʻano o ka wehe ʻana i ke apo, e hōʻike ana paha i ka hōʻole ʻana i ke kuleana a i ʻole ka huhū.
ʻO ka uhaʻi ʻana i ke apo i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ke alo ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia, ʻoiai ʻo ka nalowale ʻana e hōʻike ana i ka hele ʻana i nā pilikia kālā a i ʻole nā pilikia. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ke apo komo i loko o ka moeʻuhane he nūhou maikaʻi ia o ke ola e hiki mai ana a me ka maikaʻi.
ʻO ka manaʻo o ke kūʻai ʻana i ke apo hoʻopaʻa e hōʻike ana i ka makemake e hana i nā hana koʻikoʻi i ke ola o kekahi, ʻoiai ʻo ka ʻike o ka makana e hōʻike ana i ka makemake e hāʻawi i ke kākoʻo a me ka ʻōlelo aʻo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
ʻIke i ke komo ʻana o kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane
I loko o ka honua o nā moeʻuhane, lawe nā hōʻailona a me nā hanana i nā manaʻo kūikawā a me nā manaʻo e hiki ke huki i ka nānā. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo kaʻikeʻana i ka hoʻokomoʻana i loko o ka moeʻuhane e hōʻailona paha i kahi hui o nā hōʻailona likeʻole a me nā hoʻololi e pili ana i nā pilikino i pili i ka hanana.
Inā ʻike ʻia kahi kanaka kamaʻāina ma kāu moeʻuhane e hoʻopalau ana, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka nūhou hauʻoli e pili ana i kēia kanaka. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā pili ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i kahi hoahānau a i aloha paha, ua unuhi ʻia kēia ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona o ka māhele kokoke ʻana i kahi ʻāina a i ʻole hoʻoilina.
ʻO kekahi hiʻohiʻona e huki i ka manaʻo i ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea aloha i loko o ka moeʻuhane hoʻopalau, ʻoiai he hōʻailona kēia e hele ana ka mea moeʻuhane i nā manawa paʻakikī o ka hopohopo a me ke kaumaha. Ma kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kahi mea i make i ka moeʻuhane, ua manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ke kūlana maikaʻi i loaʻa i kēia kanaka ma hope o ke ola, ʻoiai ʻo ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana o ka mea male e hōʻike i ka holomua a i ʻole ka piʻi ʻana o ke ola.
Ma ka neʻe ʻana ma waena o nā moeʻuhane o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana, inā he wahine male ka male, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia ma ke ʻano he hoʻonui i kāna pōʻai o ke ola a me ka pōmaikaʻi i kona ola. Eia naʻe, inā ʻaʻole ʻike ka mea moeʻuhane i ka mea i hoʻopalau ʻia, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke lawe i nā hōʻailona o ka hauʻoli a me ka maikaʻi.
ʻO ke komo ʻana o nā keiki i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā hoʻokō a me ka ʻike ʻana i nā hua o ka hoʻoikaika a me ka hoʻoikaika ʻana, ʻoiai ʻo ka hoʻopili ʻana o ke kaikunāne e hōʻike paha i ka pono o kēia kaikunāne i ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua maoli i mea e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kona kūlana ola.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ka moe ʻana me ke kāne mare no nā wahine hoʻokahi
Ma ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane hoʻopalau a me nā hihiʻo e pili ana iā lākou, hōʻike ʻia nā ʻano like ʻole o ka pilina ma waena o ka mea moeʻuhane a me kāna kāne male. I ka ʻike ʻana o ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane e hoʻolimalima ana ʻo ia me kāna kāne hoʻopalau, ʻo ia ka manaʻo o ke kāne a wahine paha e ʻoluʻolu a paʻa i ko lākou pilina pili ʻana, e hōʻike ana i ka lewa o ka palekana ma waena o lākou.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o ka moe ʻana me kahi kāne male e hiki ke lawe i nā hōʻailona o ka maikaʻi a me ka mahalo like ʻana e ʻike ai ka kāne i ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana, inā aia ka ʻike a me ka launa pū ʻana ma waena o lāua.
I loko o nā moeʻuhane i hōʻole ʻia ai ka moe ʻana me ke kāne male, ʻike ʻia kēia he hōʻailona o ka maʻemaʻe o ka manaʻo a me ka hana pono, a me ka makemake e haʻalele i nā hoʻowalewale a i ʻole nā hana i manaʻo ʻia ʻaʻole pono.
No ka poʻe i mare ʻole ʻia, ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka moe ʻana me kahi kāne hoʻopalau i unuhi ʻia ma ke ʻano o ka manaʻo o loko a me nā manaʻo e pili ana i ka male a me ka pilina aloha. Hōʻike kēia ʻano moeʻuhane i nā makemake hohonu a i ʻole ka hopohopo e pili ana i ka neʻe ʻana i kahi pae hou o ke ola.
Ma kēiaʻano,ʻo nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻokomoʻana a me nā hōʻailona pili e hāʻawi i ka puka makani i ka psyche a e noʻonoʻo i ka manaʻo a me ka noʻonoʻo o ka mea moeʻuhane, e hāʻawi ana i nā wehewehe he nui e pili ana i keʻano o ka moeʻuhane a me kona pōʻaiapili i ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i ke kahuna pule e hoʻopunipuni i ka moeʻuhane no nā wahine hoʻokahi
Ke moeʻuhane kekahi kaikamahine e hoʻopunipuni kāna kāne male iā ia, e hōʻike ana paha kēia i ka puka ʻana o nā pilikia a me nā kuʻikahi ma waena o lākou. Hiki i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kumakaia ke hōʻike i nā ʻano maikaʻi ʻole i ke ʻano o ke kāne male, e like me ka moe kolohe, nāwaliwali o ka hoʻomana hoʻomana, a me ka manaʻo e hana hewa. Hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i ka nele o ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo i kā lākou pilina.
I ka ʻike ʻana o ke kaikamahine ma kāna moeʻuhane e pili ana kāna kāne hoʻopalau me kekahi wahine, he hōʻailona paha ia o ka hakakā ʻana ma waena o lāua. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka hoʻopalau e kumakaia i kekahi e hōʻailona paha e pili ana ka kūpaʻa o kā lākou hana e kūkulu i kahi pilina. Wahi a kekahi mau unuhi'ōlelo, e like me Al-Nabulsi, hiki i kēiaʻano moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo o ke kaikamahine no ka nele o ka manaʻo paʻa a me ka palekana i kāna pilina me kāna kāne male.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kāne male mua ma ka moeʻuhane e Ibn Sirin
ʻO Ibn Sirin, kekahi o nā loea i ʻike ʻia no ka unuhi ʻana i nā moeʻuhane, hāʻawi i nā ʻike kikoʻī i ke ʻano o ke kāne male mua ma ka moeʻuhane. Wahi a kāna mau wehewehe ʻana, hiki i kēia ʻano moe ke hōʻike i ka hiki ke hoʻohui hou a i ʻole ka hoʻololi hou ʻana i ka pilina me ka male mua inā loaʻa ka makemake ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka mea moeʻuhane. Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke noʻonoʻo i ke kaʻina hana o ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā kumu i alakaʻi ai i ka hopena o ka pilina ma kahi mua.
Wahi a ka wehewehe ʻana a Ibn Sirin, ʻokoʻa ka pili ʻana i ka manaʻo me ka male mua i loko o ka moeʻuhane e lawe i nā manaʻo like ʻole. ʻO ka puliki ʻana i kahi kāne male mua e hōʻike ana i ka hiki ke hoʻi hou iā ia, ʻoiai ʻo ka honi ʻana iā ia e hōʻike ana i ka hiki ke lohe i nā nūhou a i ʻole nā huaʻōlelo hoʻoikaika mai iā ia. Inā ʻike ʻia ka ex-fakane e paʻa ana i ka lima o ka mea moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia i kona makemake e noi aku i kala.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kahi kāne male ma mua e lulu lima i ka moeʻuhane e lawe i ke ʻano o ka hoʻomaopopo a me ka hoʻoholo ʻana i nā ʻokoʻa. ʻO ka uē ʻana o ka ex-fakane, ʻo ia paha ka mea e pau ai kekahi o nā hopohopo e pili ana iā ia. Inā ʻike ʻoe i ka ex-fakane e nānā kaumaha a me ke kaumaha, e hōʻike ana kēia i ka emi ʻana o kona kūlana ma hope o ka pau ʻana o ka pilina, ʻoiai ʻo kona helehelena hauʻoli e hōʻike ana i ka holomua o kona kūlana.
He meaʻoluʻoluʻo ka hakakāʻana me kahi kāne male mua ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka piʻiʻana o nā pilikia ma waena o nāʻaoʻaoʻelua, aʻo ka ho'ōhoʻana iā ia e hiki ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo o ka mea moeʻuhane no ka ponoʻole a me kaʻeha. ʻOiai ʻo ka mea moeʻuhane i hahau ʻia e ka male mua e manaʻo paha e loaʻa kahi pōmaikaʻi e pili ana i ka hopena o ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana.
ʻO ke kāheaʻana i ka ex-fiancé ke lawe nei i keʻano o ka makemake o ka mea moeʻuhane e aʻo e pili ana i ka lono o ka ex-hoʻopalau,ʻoiaiʻaʻole e pane i kāna kelepona hiki ke hōʻike i ka makemake e hoʻokaʻawale i ka pilina a hoʻokuʻuʻia mai ka wā i hala. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ke kākau ʻana i puke me kahi kāne male mua e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻoikaika ʻana e hoʻomaopopo a hoʻoholo i nā ʻokoʻa, a ʻo ka male ʻana iā ia e hōʻike i ka manaʻo e hoʻoponopono i ka pilina a lanakila i nā pilikia.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i ka makuahine o kaʻu kāne male ma ka moeʻuhane
I loko o ka honua o nā moeʻuhane, lawe nā mea a me nā kūlana i nā hōʻailona e hōʻike ana i nā ʻano like ʻole o ko mākou ola maoli. Hiki i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka makuahine o ke kāne hoʻopalau ke loaʻa nā manaʻo like ʻole e pili ana i ka pōʻaiapili a me ke kūlana noʻonoʻo o ka mea moeʻuhane.
Ke ʻike ʻia kēia kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane ma kahi kūlana aloha a aloha, hōʻike paha kēia i ka makemake a makemake paha e hoʻomaikaʻi hou a hoʻomaikaʻi paha i nā pilina pilikino, inā paha me ka makuahine o ka male mua ma ke ʻano pololei a i ʻole ma ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana i ka pilina o ka lehulehu ma o nā mea waena a i ʻole nā hanana kaiaulu.
Inā ʻike ʻia ka makuahine o ka ex-hoʻopalau i loko o ka moeʻuhane me kahi hiʻohiʻona ʻakaʻaka, hōʻailona paha kēia i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o nā pilina maikaʻi aʻe. ʻOiai ke ʻike ʻia ʻana o ka huhū a i ʻole ke kaumaha, hiki ke hōʻike i nā pilikia a i ʻole nā pilikia e hiki mai ana i nā pilina pilikino. ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā hiʻohiʻona o ka uē e hōʻike paha i ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia a i ʻole ka hoʻoponopono ʻana i nā pilikia, a me kahi hōʻailona o ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā hopohopo a me ke kaumaha.
ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona o ka honi ʻana a i ʻole ka puliki ʻana me ka makuahine o ka mea hoʻopalau ma ka moeʻuhane hiki ke hōʻike i kahi hōʻike o ke kākoʻo a me ke aloha, a he hōʻailona paha i ke ʻano o ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana a i ʻole ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana i kekahi mau hihia, ʻoi aku ka paʻa o ka manaʻo pili i ke kanaka. ex-hoopalau.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻo nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hakakā ʻana a i ʻole ka hahau ʻia me ka makuahine o ka wahine hoʻopalau e hōʻike ana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia e hiki ke keʻakeʻa i ka holomua ma ke ola maoli, akā hiki iā lākou ke lawe i nā manawa e loaʻa ai ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua i ka lanakila ʻana i kēia mau pilikia.
ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo kēia mau moeʻuhane he hōʻailona ia o nā manaʻo pilikino a me nā mea i manaʻo ʻia, a me ka wehe ʻana o ke kanaka i ke kū ʻana i nā pilikia a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kuʻikahi ma kāna mau pilina.
ʻO ka male ʻana o ka male mua ma ka moeʻuhane
ʻO ka nānā ʻana i ka male ʻana a me ka hoʻolauleʻa ʻana i ka male ʻana o kahi kāne male mua, me ka lohe ʻana i nā ululations, hiki ke lawe i nā manaʻo o ke kaumaha a me ka mihi no ka nalowale ʻana o kahi hoa koʻikoʻi, a he hōʻailona paha ia i kahi pae paʻakikī i piha i nā pilikia. ʻO ka hula ma ka male ʻana o ka ex-fakane e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo o ke kumakaia a me ka nāwaliwali i mua o nā kūlana.
Eia kekahi, i ka ʻike ʻana o ka mea moeʻuhane e mare ana kāna kāne male mua i kahi ʻē, ʻo ia paha ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi mokuna hou o kona ola e haʻalele iā ia, a i ʻole e hōʻike paha ua neʻe ʻo ia mai ka pilina a ʻaʻole manaʻo hou. . Inā pili ka male ʻana i ke kaikuahine a i ʻole ka hoaaloha o ka mea moeʻuhane, hōʻike paha kēia i nā manaʻo o ka mehameha a me ka manaʻo o ke kumakaia e nā poʻe kokoke.
ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka wahine a ka wahine i hala ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka nalowaleʻana o ka manaʻolana i ka hoʻokumu houʻana i ka pilina,ʻoiaiʻo ka hakakā me ia he hōʻailona ia o nā paio nui a me nā poho e hiki ai i ka mea moeʻuhane ke alo.
