Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻike ʻana i ka wahine e hoʻopunipuni ana i kona kaikunāne
Ma nā wehewehe maʻamau o nā moeʻuhane o ka hoʻomaloka, hiki i kēia mau hihiʻo ke lawe i kahi manaʻo maikaʻi e hōʻike ana i ka hohonu o ka pilina ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine.
No ka laʻana, ʻo ka moeʻuhane i ka ʻike ʻana i kāna wahine e hoʻopunipuni ana i kekahi mea pili, e like me ke kaikunāne, e hōʻike ana paha i ka pono o ke aloha a me ke kākoʻo i loko o ka pilina male.
Hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke kumu mai ka makemake o ka wahine e loaʻa i kekahi mau manaʻo a i ʻole nā hana mai kāna kāne mai, ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa i ke ala i makemake ʻia i ko lākou ʻoiaʻiʻo.
No laila, ʻike ʻia kēia mau moeʻuhane he hōʻailona o kahi pilina pili hohonu a hōʻike paha i ke olakino a me ka kūleʻa o kahi pilina ke mālama ʻia nā leka ma hope o lākou me ka ʻike a me ka naʻauao.
Ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻomaloka
Ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa male i ka wahine male e hōʻike ana i kona mau manaʻo hohonu o ka hopohopo a me ka hopohopo e pili ana i ke kūpaʻa o kāna ola male, e hōʻike ana i ka nui o kāna kūpaʻa a me ka hohonu o kona mau manaʻo i kāna hoa ola.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ke ʻike ke kāne i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa male ma kāna moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia moeʻuhane ke lawe i nā hōʻailona o nā pilikia kālā a i ʻole ka pono e kū ai ʻo ia, akā ʻo ke kāne e ʻike ana i kāna wahine e hoʻopunipuni iā ia ma ka moeʻuhane he lono maikaʻi paha ia no ka hoʻomaka. o kahi hou, holomua a holomua i ko laua noho male ana.
Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, inā moeʻuhane ka wahine e hoʻopunipuni kāna kāne iā ia, e hōʻike ana kēia i ka nui o ka kūpaʻa a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo āna e lawe ai i loko o kona puʻuwai i kāna kāne, e hoʻoikaika ana i ka ikaika o ka pilina ma waena o lāua.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana o kaʻu wahine iaʻu
Ua wehewehe ʻo Ibn Sirin ʻo ka moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuni ana ka wahine i kāna kāne, ʻoiai inā ʻike ʻia ka mea ʻē aʻe e ke kāne, e hōʻike ana paha ke kū nei ke kāne i nā pilikia kālā.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka pili ʻana o ka wahine me ka hoaaloha o ke kāne, he hōʻike ia o kona makemake ʻole e hoʻokokoke i kēia hoaaloha a me kāna hoʻāʻo e hoʻokaʻawale i kāna kāne mai ona aku.
ʻO ka hihiʻo e hoʻopunipuni ana ka wahine i kāna kāne, inā he awelika nā kūlana kālā o ka ʻohana, e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika o ka pilina a me ke aloha ma waena o nā kāne.
Eia naʻe, inā waiwai ke kāne, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i ka pilikia o ka lilo ʻana o ka waiwai a i ʻole ke kālā.
Ua wehewehe ʻo Ibn Sirin ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka kumakaia ʻana o ka wahine e hōʻike ana i ka nele o ka wahine i ka manaʻo i mahalo ʻia e kāna kāne a i ʻole kona manaʻo ʻole.
Hoʻomaopopo pū ʻo ia i kēia ʻano moeʻuhane e hōʻike i ka piʻi ʻana o nā pilikia o ka male, ka emi ʻana o ke kūlana kālā, a i ʻole ka lilo ʻana o ke kāne i kāna hana.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e pili ana iaʻu e hoʻopunipuni ana i kaʻu kāne me kaʻu mea aloha i ka moeʻuhane
ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa o ka wahine male me kāna mea aloha mua, e like me ka ʻike o kekahi poʻe, hiki ke hōʻike i nā hōʻailona o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa ʻana a i ʻole nā kuʻikahi.
ʻO kēia mau moeʻuhane, e ʻike pinepine ʻia, hiki ke lawe i loko o lākou i nā hōʻailona o nā pilikia a i ʻole ka hopohopo i ke ola o ka wahine.
Inā pili ka hihiʻo i ke kumakaia me kahi kanaka kikoʻī, e hōʻailona paha kēia, e like me kekahi mau wehewehe ʻana, ke ʻano o ka hilinaʻi ʻole a i ʻole ka hoʻopunipuni e komo ai kēia kanaka.
Hiki i ka hihiʻo ke hōʻike i nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole i kēlā kanaka.
He mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole paʻa a kikoʻī paha kēia mau wehewehe ʻana, no ka mea, ʻo ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i kahi ākea o nā ʻano pilikino pilikino a me nā kūlana ola.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana o ka wahine i kāna kāne i mua ona
ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kumuhana o ke kumakaia e hōʻike i nāʻano likeʻole a me nā wehewehe e like me nā kiko'ī o ka moeʻuhane a me nā kūlana o ka mea moeʻuhane.
Manaʻo kekahi poʻe unuhi ʻōlelo ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi ma ka moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuni i mua o kāna wahine e hōʻike i nā hopohopo kūloko a me nā kānalua e hoʻopilikia nei i ka mea moeʻuhane e pili ana i kāna pilina me kāna wahine, kahi e hoʻoulu ai i ka manaʻo hopohopo no ka nalowale ʻana o ke aloha a me ka nānā ʻana ma kāna ʻaoʻao.
I kekahi manawa, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke kumakaia i loko o ka moeʻuhane hiki ke hōʻike i nā makemake no ka loaʻa ʻana o ka maluhia a me ke kūpaʻa i ka noho male ʻana, a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā pilikia a me nā pilikia.
Aia kekahi wehewehe e hōʻike ana e hōʻike ana kēia mau moeʻuhane i nā hana a ke kāne e hauʻoli i kāna wahine a hoʻāʻo e hoʻokō i kāna mau makemake, e kāhea ana iā ia e haʻalele i nā ʻano e hōʻino ai i ka pilina a hāpai i nā paio.
Inā ʻaʻole i loaʻa i ke ʻano e hoʻopunipuni ana i ka moeʻuhane ke aloha a ʻae ʻia paha, hōʻike ia i ka pono e hoʻoponopono i nā manaʻo hopohopo a me ka palekana.
Paipai kēia mau moeʻuhane iā ʻoe e hoʻomanawanui, e alo i ka makaʻu me ka mālie, a mai hāʻawi aku iā lākou.
Ua akaka mai na wehewehe like ole o na moeuhane o ka pili ole o ka mare e hiki ai ia lakou ke hoike mai i na manao paakiki a me ka ikaika hohonu iloko o na pilina pilikino, e kahea ana i na kanaka e noonoo a noonoo e pili ana i ka pili ana i ka pili o ka mare ma na ano e hoonui ai i ke aloha a me ka ike like.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana iaʻu e hoʻopunipuni ana i kaʻu kāne me kahi kāne ʻē aʻe ma ka moeʻuhane
I loko o nā moeʻuhane wahine, hiki ke ʻike ʻia nā hihiʻo e hōʻike ana i nā ʻike a me nā manaʻo like ʻole.
Eia kekahi laʻana, ināʻike ka wahine'ōpio i mareʻoleʻia ma kāna moeʻuhane e mare anaʻo ia aʻikeʻo ia e hoʻopunipuni ana kāna hoa iā ia me kāna hoaaloha, a laila, e hōʻike ana paha kēia, e like me ka'ōlelo a kekahi poʻe, he hōʻailona e hiki ai iā ia keʻikeʻia. poho kālā.
I ka hihia o ka wahine mare, inā ʻike ʻo ia ma kāna moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuni ana ʻo ia i kāna kāne me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe, manaʻo kekahi he hōʻailona ia e hōʻike ai i ke kūpaʻa a me ka ikaika o ka pilina aloha e pili ana iā ia me kāna kāne.
No ka wahine hāpai e moeʻuhane ana e hoʻopunipuni ana ʻo ia i kāna hoa me kahi hoa hana mua, ua wehewehe ʻia kēia hiʻohiʻona e kekahi e hōʻike ana aia kekahi mau pilikia i ka pilina male a me nā pilikia e pili ana i ka wā hāpai.
I ka hopena, hiki i kekahi poʻe ke nānā i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kumuhana o ka hoʻomaloka ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona o nā pono kālā e loaʻa i ka wahine.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane he wahi i hoʻopuni ʻia e nā ʻano ambiguities a me nā wehewehe like ʻole, a ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa e hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i kona ʻano ʻo ia iho.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana i ka wahine me kahi kanaka ʻike ʻole
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāna wahine ma ka moeʻuhane e hana ana i nā hana ʻokoʻa me kahi mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia e ka mea moeʻuhane hiki ke hōʻike i kahi hui o nā manaʻo like ʻole.
No ka laʻana, inā ʻike ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane i kāna wahine i kekahi mau kūlana me kahi mea ʻike ʻole ʻia, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona ke kū nei ʻo ia i kekahi mau pilikia o waho e hoʻopilikia i kona kūpaʻa kālā a i ʻole ka manaʻo.
Ma kēia pōʻaiapili, ʻo ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kamaʻilio ʻana o ka wahine me kahi mea ʻike ʻole ʻia he hōʻailona ia o ka hopohopo a i ʻole ka hopohopo o ka mea moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka nalowale o ka palekana, ke kālā, a i ʻole kāna hana.
Eia kekahi, hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kahi manaʻo e pono ai ke kākoʻo a me ka palekana mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma waho o ka hoa.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā kūlana e like me ke kumakaia me kahi mea ʻike ʻole ʻia paha e hōʻike i nā poho waiwai a i ʻole nā poino, a i ʻole e hōʻike i nā manaʻo o ka hōʻeha a me ka hopohopo e pili ana i ka mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia.
Hiki i kēia mau hihiʻo ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo lili a i ʻole ka makaʻala e hoʻomalu i ke kanaka i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ke kumakaia ʻana o ka wahine me kahi mea i ʻike ʻia
Ma nā moeʻuhane, hiki i nā hōʻailona a me nā hanana ke lawe i nā manaʻo hohonu e pili ana i ka pilina pilikino a me ka pilikanaka.
Ke ʻike ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane e pili ana kāna wahine i kahi mea āna i ʻike ai, hiki i kēia hōʻailona ke hōʻike i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi e pili ana i ka pilina a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kēlā kanaka.
ʻAʻole i manaʻo ʻia kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻike o ke kumakaia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā hiki ke hōʻike i ka hoʻololi ʻana o nā pōmaikaʻi a me ke kōkua ma waena o ka mea moeʻuhane a me ka mea kaulana.
Eia kekahi laʻana, ināʻike kekahi kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuni kāna wahine iā ia me kekahi kanaka, hiki ke hōʻike i ka hiki ke loaʻa ke kākoʻo a iʻole ka pōmaikaʻi mai kēia kanaka kaulana.
No nā moeʻuhane e hoʻokomo i nā kiʻi ma nā kūlana ʻuhane a i ʻole nā kūlana mana, hiki iā lākou ke kuhikuhi i nā wahi e pono ai ka mea moeʻuhane e hoʻomohala, e like me ka hoʻonui ʻana i ka pili ʻana i nā hana hoʻomana a i ʻole ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā manaʻo pilikino.
ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i nā hana me nā lālā o ka ʻohana e like me ka makua kāne a i ʻole ke kaikunāne e lawe pū i kekahi mau manaʻo.
ʻO ka hihiʻo i hōʻike ʻia ai ka wahine a ka mea moeʻuhane me kona makuakāne e hōʻike ana i ke kumu o ka mālama nui ʻana o ka makua kāne i kona ʻohana, ʻoiai ʻo ka hihiʻo e pili ana i ke kaikunāne e hōʻike ana i ka hohonu o ka pilina a me ke aloha i loko o ka ʻohana.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ke kumakaia me ka poʻe ʻohana a i ʻole nā hoaaloha pili hiki ke hōʻailona i ka makemake like, kākoʻo, a me ka launa pū ʻana a ka mea moeʻuhane e hauʻoli ai ma ka ʻaoʻao o kēia mau kānaka.
I ka pōkole, lawe kēia mau moeʻuhane i nā manaʻo ma mua o nā hanana wale nō, e hōʻike ana i ka pilina waiwai a paʻakikī i waena o nā kānaka, a me ka pilina a me ke kākoʻo e loaʻa i ke kanaka ma kāna pūnaewele.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana o ka wahine i kāna kāne ma ke kelepona
Inā ʻike ke kanaka ma kāna moeʻuhane e kamaʻilio malū ana kāna wahine me kekahi kanaka ʻē aʻe ma ke kelepona, hōʻike paha kēia i kona hopohopo o ka hāʻule ʻana i ka hoʻopunipuni a hoʻopunipuni paha.
ʻO nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hilinaʻi a me ke kumakaia, ʻoi aku ma o ke ʻano o ke kamaʻilio ʻana e like me ke kelepona ʻana a i ʻole ke kamaʻilio leo a me ke wikiō, hiki ke hōʻike i nā pilikia a i ʻole nā pilikia i ke kamaʻilio ʻana ma waena o nā kāne.
I nā hihia ʻē aʻe, hiki ke hōʻike i ka makaʻu i ka nalowale o ka pilikino a i ʻole ka hoʻolaha ʻana o ka ʻike pilikino me ka nānā ʻole ʻia.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kekahi kāne e kamaʻilio malū ana me kekahi kanaka ma o ka pāpaho a i ʻole ma o ka wikiō paha e hōʻike i ka hopohopo e pili ana i ka hilinaʻi a me ka hilinaʻi i ka pilina.
Eia kekahi, ʻo ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana i ka wahine ma ka moeʻuhane ma o ka leo a i ʻole ke kelepona wikiō hiki ke hōʻike i ka hopohopo o ke kāne no ka hilahila a i ʻole ka hōʻino ʻia i mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
I ka ʻike ʻana i ke ʻano o ke kumakaia ma o ke kelepona paʻa a hoʻomaka i kahi noi hoʻokaʻawale i hele pū ʻia me ka waimaka, e noʻonoʻo paha kēia i ke alo ʻana i nā kamaʻilio paʻakikī a makemake ʻole ʻia mai kekahi ʻaoʻao.
Inā loaʻa i ka hihiʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻomaloka ma ke kelepona a ua hōʻike ʻia ka makemake e kaʻawale, akā ʻaʻole i pau ka hemo ʻana, hiki ke manaʻo ʻia he hōʻailona o ka pōmaikaʻi a me ke ola e hui pū ai nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua i nā lā e hiki mai ana.
Ke hana hou nei i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka wahine hoʻopunipuni i kāna kāne
ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona hou o ka hoʻopunipuni ʻana i ka wahine ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i nā hōʻailona a me nā hōʻailona hiki ke hoʻomaopopo ʻia ma nā ʻano like ʻole.
Inā hoʻomaka hou ka moeʻuhane o ka hoʻopunipuni i kāna wahine, he hōʻailona paha kēia no ka pono e hoʻolohe i ka poʻe a puni iā ia a pale i ka huki ʻia i nā hoʻowalewale.
Manaʻo ʻia e hōʻike ana kēia mau moeʻuhane i ke kūlana o ka hakakā kūloko a me ke ʻano o ke kanaka e hahai i kāna mau makemake.
Inā ʻo ke kumakaia i loko o ka moeʻuhane me kahi mea i ʻike ʻia e ka mea moeʻuhane, hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia ma ke ʻano he hōʻailona o ka hilinaʻi i ka pilina me kēia kanaka.
Inā pili ka kumakaia me kahi malihini, hiki iā ia ke aʻo i ka pilikia e hiki mai ana mai nā poʻe āu i ʻike ʻole ai.
Ma nā moeʻuhane e pili ana i ka hoʻopunipuniʻana i ka wahine me kahi lālā o kaʻohana, e like me ke kaikunāne, no ka laʻana, hiki ke hōʻike i ke kaumaha a me nā pilikia i kauʻia ma luna o kaʻohana.
I ka hihia o ke kumakaia me kahi hoaaloha, hiki i ka ʻike ke hōʻike i ke kākoʻo a me ke kōkua a kēia hoaaloha e hāʻawi mau ai.
Loaʻa i kēia mau moeʻuhane nā manaʻo noʻonoʻo a me nā manaʻo, a ua ʻike ʻia he mau hōʻailona no ka ʻike pilikino a me nā pilina pili kanaka me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Paipai ʻia ke kanaka e noʻonoʻo i kēia mau ʻike a huki i nā haʻawina e hoʻomaikaʻi ai i kā lākou pilina a me nā pilina.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kāne hoʻopunipuni i kāna wahine me kāna hoaaloha
ʻO ka wahine i ʻike i kāna kāne e hoʻopunipuni iā ia me kāna hoaaloha ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i kona mau manaʻo hohonu iā ia a me ka makaʻu mau iā ia e nalowale iā ia.
Hōʻike kēia mau moeʻuhane i kona aloha nui i kāna kāne a me ka makaʻu i ka mehameha a me ka haʻalele.
Hōʻike pū ia i ka pilina paʻa ma waena o nā hoa kāne a me ka hana lokomaikaʻi a ka wahine i makemake ai i kāna kāne a me kāna ʻohana e loaʻa ai ko lākou ʻoluʻolu.
Ma ka pōʻaiapili like, hōʻike kēia mau moeʻuhane i ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia noʻonoʻo e kū nei i ka wahine, ʻoi aku ka pili ʻana i ka makaʻu o ka nalowale ʻana o kāna kāne a i ʻole ka hopohopo e pili ana i ka lohi ʻana i ka hānau keiki, ʻoiai lākou e wānana ana i nā loli maikaʻi e hiki mai ana a me ka loaʻa ʻana o nā lono hauʻoli e hoʻopau i kēia mau makaʻu.
Eia kekahi, ua hōʻike kēia mau moeʻuhane i ka pilikia kālā o nā kāne ma muli o ka mālama ʻole ʻana o ke kāne i kāna mau kuleana kūpono a me ka hopena o kēia i ka ola ʻohana.
Hōʻike kēia i ka pono o ka hana hui a me ka nānā ʻana i nā hana e pale aku i nā hopena o kēia mālama ʻole.
I ka hopena, hōʻike kēia mau hiʻohiʻona hohonu i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo o ka wahine e pili ana i kona noho male ʻana, inā ma ke ʻano o ke aloha a me ka pili ʻana a i ʻole ka makaʻu i nā loli waiwai a me nā pilikia, e hōʻike ana i ke koʻikoʻi o ka hoʻomaopopo like ʻana a me ke kākoʻo ʻana ma waena o nā hoa kāne e lanakila ai i kēia mau pilikia.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane e pili ana i ke kāne hoʻopunipuni i kāna wahine no ka wahine male
I loko o ka pōʻaiapili o ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, ʻike pinepine ʻia kahi hiʻohiʻona o ka hoʻomaloka male ʻana i nā manaʻo ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka mea i ʻike ʻia.
I ka ʻike ʻana o ka wahine i kāna moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuni kāna kāne iā ia, he mea hoʻopilikia a ʻeha paha kēia ma ka ʻili, akā i ka honua o ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke lawe i nā hōʻailona maikaʻi a me nā hōʻailona.
Hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke hōʻike i kahi hoʻololi i nā kūlana no ka maikaʻi a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i nā hopohopo a me nā pilikia i kaumaha ai ka mea moeʻuhane i nā wā i hala.
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa male ma ka moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻokō koke ʻana o nā moeʻuhane a me nā manaʻolana, ʻo ia hoʻi nā mea e pili ana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi kālā a i ʻole ka loaʻa ʻana o nā manawa hana hou a maikaʻi e hoʻololi ai i ke ʻano o ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane no ka maikaʻi.
ʻO ka hoʻonui ʻana a me ka nui o ke ola ma waena o nā wehewehe i loaʻa mai i kēia ʻano moeʻuhane, ʻoiai ʻo ka nui o ke ola a me ka nui o ka maikaʻi i ʻike ʻia he hopena pololei o ka hoʻomau ʻana i ka hoʻomanawanui a me ka lanakila ʻana i nā pilikia me ke kūpaʻa.
No laila, hoʻokomo ʻia ke kumakaia i loko o kahi ʻano wehewehe e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻolana maikaʻi, ʻoiai e lilo ia i hōʻailona o ka nalo koke ʻana o nā pilikia a me ka hoʻomaka ʻana o kahi pae hou i piha i ka manaolana a me ka manaʻolana.
ʻO ka hoʻololi ʻana mai kahi kūlana hopohopo a hoʻomaha mai nā memo hōʻoluʻolu i loko o ka puʻuwai o ka mea nānā, e hoʻoikaika ana i ka hilinaʻi e kokoke mai ana ka loli no ka maikaʻi.
Ke moeʻuhane ka wahine e hoʻopunipuni kāna kāne iā ia me ʻelua mau wahine ʻē aʻe i loko o kāna moeʻuhane, hiki i kēia ke hōʻike i ke ʻano o kekahi mau hōʻailona e pili ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e ola nei.
Ma kēia pōʻaiapili, hiki i ka moeʻuhane ke hōʻike i kahi mea maoli iʻikeʻia e nā pilikia e pili ana i ka hilinaʻi a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo ma waena o nā hoaʻelua.
He mea nui e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā leka ma hope o nā moeʻuhane a hana e hoʻoholo i nā pilikia kumu o ka pilina.
Inā hāpai ka mea moeʻuhane a ʻike ʻo ia e hoʻopunipuni kāna kāne iā ia me nā wahine ʻelua, a laila hiki i kēia hihiʻo ke lawe i kahi manaʻo ʻē aʻe e pili ana i kona kūlana ponoʻī.
He hōʻailona paha kēia moeʻuhane e hāpai ana ʻo ia i nā māhoe.
ʻO nā moeʻuhane i ka wā o ka hāpai ʻana he paʻakikī a ʻokoʻa paha ma muli o ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka hormonal a me ka noʻonoʻo i ʻike ʻia e ka wahine hāpai.
ʻO ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane o ke kumakaia ʻana o ke kāne me ke kaikamahine ma ka moeʻuhane
I kekahi manawa, hiki i ka wahine mare ke moeʻuhane e pili ana kāna kāne me ke kaikamahine, a hiki ke unuhi ʻia kēia moeʻuhane, e like me kekahi mau wehewehe ʻana, he hōʻailona o ka nui o ke aloha o ke kāne i kāna wahine, e hōʻike ana i kona kūpaʻa a me kona kūpaʻa ʻana iā ia. ʻo ia a ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe.
ʻO kēia hiʻohiʻona, e like me ka mea i ʻōlelo ʻia, ʻaʻole ia he hōʻike o ke kumakaia a me ka ʻoluʻolu ʻole i ka pilina male, akā ma ka mea ʻē aʻe, hiki ke hōʻike i ka hohonu o nā manaʻo maikaʻi a me ka kūpaʻa.
I kekahi manawa, hiki mai ka moeʻuhane ma muli o nā manaʻo o loko a me nā hopohopo e noho ana i ka manaʻo o ka wahine, e like me ka hopohopo e pili ana i ka nalowale o ke aloha a i ʻole kumakaia, a ʻaʻohe kumu maoli o kēia mau moeʻuhane.
Eia kekahi, ua'ōleloʻiaʻo ka hihiʻo o ke kumakaia i loko o ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine hāpai e hōʻailona paha, ma kekahi mau mea, ka manaʻolana o ka hānau maʻalahi a me ka hikiʻana mai o kahi keiki kāne.
Hōʻike kēia mau wehewehe ʻana i ka nui o ke ʻano o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka manaʻo o ka wahine i kāna mau moeʻuhane a me kāna mau manaʻo, e hoʻokūpaʻa ana i kēia mau mea i ka ʻike o ka mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia a ʻokoʻa paha ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moeʻuhane e like me ke ʻano a me ke kūlana pilikino o kēlā me kēia kanaka.
He aha ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuni ana kaʻu kāne iaʻu me kahi wahine aʻu i ʻike ai?
Ma ka moeʻuhane, ʻo nā moeʻuhane e ʻike ai ka wahine hāpai i kāna kāne e hoʻopunipuni iā ia me kahi wahine āna i ʻike ai e lawe i kekahi mau manaʻo ʻokoʻa mai ka ʻoiaʻiʻo.
He hōʻailona paha kēia ʻike i nā pilikia a i ʻole nā manaʻo hopohopo e pili ana i nā pilina pilikino.
Pono e hoʻoikaika i ka ʻike ʻana o ke kumakaia i loko o ka moeʻuhane ʻaʻole ia he hōʻike o kona ola maoli ʻana, akā hiki ke hōʻike i ka makaʻu i ka wā e hiki mai ana a i ʻole e nalowale kekahi mea nui.
ʻO ka mea nui, inā ʻike ka wahine hāpai i kāna moeʻuhane e hoʻopunipuni kāna kāne iā ia a loaʻa iā ia nā keiki me kahi wahine ʻē aʻe, e hōʻike paha kēia i nā manaʻo hopohopo e pili ana i ka hānau ʻana a me nā hoʻololi nui e lawe mai ai i ke ola.
ʻAʻole hiki i kēia ʻike ke hōʻike i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā e hōʻike ana i ka makaʻu i loko o ka mea i ʻike ʻole ʻia a me ka paʻakikī e pili ana i nā manaʻo o ka hānau ʻana a me ka makuahine.
Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, hiki i kēia mau moeʻuhane ke lawe i kahi hōʻailona o ka pilina ma loko o kaʻohana a iʻole nā hoaaloha, no ka mea,ʻo kaʻikeʻana i kahi wahine kaulana i ka moeʻuhane a ke kāne e hoʻopunipuni ai, hiki ke hōʻike i ka hopohopo a iʻole ka weheweheʻana i nā manaʻo o ka inaina a me ka lili i ka pilina pili kaiaulu.
ʻO kēia mau mea i loko o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona paha ia o nā ʻike ala a i ʻole nā manaʻo i hōʻike ʻole ʻia e ka mea moeʻuhane.
